He swears to this day it was an emotional connection only and a cry for attention but not physical. I will never know but believe if she responded he did or would have a sexual relationship with her. He did not take 100% responsibility for his choice to violate the marriage vows but blamed ME for not meeting his need for attention and affection. We did however go to short term marriage counseling and he promised transparency and to do whatever it took to heal my pain. He even wept and begged forgiveness of both of my parents whom at that time believed him to be a good man who made a poor choice. Because they believed in the sacrament of marriage they encouraged me to forgive and stay in the marriage. Approximately a month or two after committing to total transparency in the marital relationship in the presence of our counselor he became angry and annoyed with my insecurity and demanded my forgiveness or he would be forced to end the marriage as “he could not live like this.” There was never consideration for how I wished to live or my feelings only his needs as mine were on his predetermined timeline contrary to what he said or committed to in
He swears to this day it was an emotional connection only and a cry for attention but not physical. I will never know but believe if she responded he did or would have a sexual relationship with her. He did not take 100% responsibility for his choice to violate the marriage vows but blamed ME for not meeting his need for attention and affection. We did however go to short term marriage counseling and he promised transparency and to do whatever it took to heal my pain. He even wept and begged forgiveness of both of my parents whom at that time believed him to be a good man who made a poor choice. Because they believed in the sacrament of marriage they encouraged me to forgive and stay in the marriage. Approximately a month or two after committing to total transparency in the marital relationship in the presence of our counselor he became angry and annoyed with my insecurity and demanded my forgiveness or he would be forced to end the marriage as “he could not live like this.” There was never consideration for how I wished to live or my feelings only his needs as mine were on his predetermined timeline contrary to what he said or committed to in