Okonkwo and his father Unoka have very little in common. Although both are tall men, Unoka walks with a stoop, burdened by the scorn of his tribe. The Igbo people value power and ferocity in their men, and Unoka is not like that. Sensitive by nature, he appreciates music, children, and the beauty of nature. Unoka is happiest when he is playing his flute and drinking palm wine, enjoying the company of his neighbors.…
Okonkwo shares a better relationship with his daughter than his son because while Ezinma is his parallel and Nwoye is his foil. Current research has brought up significant differences between father/son and father/daughter relationships. A recent…
Okonkwo grew up seeing his father drink away the small amount of income that came his way, and saw him die as a man who had nothing to his name, nothing to pass leave to his children,…
Ezinma’s Eulogy For Okonkwo It’ s a shame that my father went out the way he did, a disgrace even. However we must look past his suicide and towards the true meaning of his life. Okonkwo started with nothing, and became one of the greatest rulers in Umuofia. He was raised by his lazy father, who had received no title in his long lifetime. I remember Okonkwo telling me stories about the people who would laugh at his father and call him a loafer.…
Reasons for that was mainly because “Nwoye was already causing his father great anxiety for his incipient laziness”. With Ezinma, Okonkwo expressed different types of feelings, such as caring and having great concern for her. Mainly his care for her was due to where Ezinma had the “right spirit and alone understood Okonkwo’s every mood”. Due to how he treats…
In terms of classical literature and theatre, dating back to Ancient Greece, a tragic hero is a man of great wealth or power who falls from grace. This fall happens at times because of external forces, but more often the man’s downfall is caused by none other than himself. At times, this curse belies the character by an action of choice, be it due to personal failings or because of a misunderstanding. The downfall of Okonkwo, in spite of seeming to be a far different story altogether, is not so different from. Okonkwo comes from humble beginnings.…
Terrified of messing up and getting beaten, Nwoye is effortlessly kind and loving to everyone in the village. He was scared of being like his father, so he began to oppose violence and wanted to be more level- headed. Okonkwo, however, viewed Nwoye was “already causing [him] great anxiety for his incipient laziness,” (13), and was worried that Nwoye would turn out like Unoka. Just like the relationship between Unoka and Okonkwo, Nwoye is scared of being like his father, and is a foil to him (153). When Okonkwo was acting manly, Nwoye was listening to the stories of the women.…
He is very black and white, women are meant to be weak and comprise to what men say and men have to be responsible and strong. This is an explanation to why the relationship between Okonkwo and his eldest son Nwoye and his eldest daughter Ezinma is so contradicting. We see how Okonkwo has a close to hatred or feeling of resentment for his son, but an almost accepting attitude towards his…
When Obierika asks Nwoye about his father Nwoye says, “He is not my father” (144). Nwoye also believes his father was too controlling in his life. Okonkwo wants Nwoye to be this strong, big, and masculine man that he does not want to be. Nwoye tries to be what his father wants, but he cannot do it. Okonkwo decides to take his own life like Neil.…
For one, it is culturally significant to have more than one wife, with the more wives indication higher rank or success. Okonkwo’s three wives (and children) feared him because he was a man driven by his father’s poor legacy, and he wished to avert it. This drove Okonkwo to become a successful yet harsh man - or a man with a tough shell. The relationship between Ekwefi and Ezinma is particularly fascinating to me because it contrasts the general tone of the book. The book tells a story of things falling apart while Ekwefi’s is a story of success.…
Growing up, Okonkwo was faced with having a failure as a father; Unoka was called “Agbala” by the other kids, which meant man with no title (World Eras 3). He eventually compared his father to the women in his clan, for he perceived them both as weak, frail, and powerless. Okonkwo had many children due to his many wives, but the reader is only introduced to one son, Nwoye. Nwoye eventually became a disappointment to Okonkwo throughout his childhood; he was not as…
Okonkwo was a rich and respected warrior who brought honor to the Umuofia clan. He was very different from his late father, Unoka, who was weak, sensitive, and ultimately a failure. Okonkwo never wanted to be like his father, and even “as a little boy he had resented his father’s failure and weaknesses” (Achebe 13). This was his tragic flaw, he under no circumstances wanted to be a failure or “resemble his father” in any way (Achebe 13). Among the Umuofia clan “a man was judged according to his worth and not according to the worth of his father” (Achebe 8).…
His mother tells fairytales and womanly stories that Nwoye thoroughly enjoys but he must pretend to hate them to please his father. Okonkwo sees too much of his own father in his son and that terrifies him. He sees cowardice, laziness, gentleness, idleness and all the other feminine things that he fears. Okonkwo often beats him physically and berates him mentally for being nothing like himself. “I will not have a son who cannot hold up his head in the gathering of the clan.…
A father is supposed to raise his son into a man who can stand on his own in the real world. The way of which the son is raised is the most important aspect. As a child is raised, they develop feelings toward their fathers based on how they are taught and treated on the path to becoming an adult. The relationships of Unoka, Okonkwo, Nwoye, and Ikemefuna reflect the reason for their diverse personalities and characteristics.…
Ezinma on the other hand is favored by Okonkwo. Her relationship to the family is very interesting. Throughout the book, Okonkwo wishes that she was a boy. Also Ezinma also calls her mother by her name rather than “mother”. “‘Ekwefi,’ she said, ‘is it true that when people are grown up, fire does not burn them?’…