I am not sure if Gatsby is devoted to Daisy or if he driven to possess her and what she represents. Their courtship described Daisy as part of the world that Gatsby aspired to and I feel that his longing was just as much for the lifestyle she represented as it was for Daisy, or maybe the two were the same thing for Gatsby. I feel the relationship between Gatsby and Daisy is similar in this way, both women being judged for what they represent vs. who they are. In the end Mrs Forrester seemed to have more courage than Daisy. Mrs. Forrester rebelled against the image placed on her where Daisy seemed to resign herself to her role. Perhaps that is not fair to Daisy, Nick is the only one telling us the story.
We are stuck with Nick as our narrator
We are stuck with Nick as our narrator