Relationship Between Ali And Amir's Relationship

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Not every one can respect every relationship and value them at the same time. In chapter 9, Baba shows his friendship with Ali remains the same even after Amir’s insist of getting new servants. And valuing the true frienship and responsibility towards Hassan. Whereas, Amir’s disloyalty and jealosuy comes to the point of removing the valuable persons from his life in greed of Baba’s affection.

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