The definition of Relational Dialectics Theory describes how relational life is described as an ongoing tension between contradictory impulses (199). However, the theory can benefit from economic terms as presented in Social Exchange Theory. Moreover, the theory could develop and explain how cost and rewards affect a relationship based on ongoing tensions. The two theories have similarities staring with their assumptions of rational life. Consequently, Relational Dialectics can use an integration of Social Exchanges use of cost and rewards. Cost and rewards are able to describe why individuals with a relationship disclose information while keeping other information private from their partner. Additionally, the disclosure of information can
