The quality of care is still there, the options for seniors for long-term care types are independent living, retirement communities, care retirement …show more content…
Trying to say in your home takes a lot of preparations. Thinking about Homecare to keep your parent in their home can be very expensive. Home care services go by an hourly rate and if you can’t afford that 24/7 then a sibling or caregiver will have to take over.
Mom doesn’t want me to go through what she did with grandma. Mom keeps grandma home as long as she could; she had taken care of grandma for 24 years before she couldn’t do it any longer. Caregivers give up their life for their parents or parent, even if there is more than one child in the family, it’s always left up to on sibling and that was my mom. After grandma moved in with us mom had no life of her own, it was always what grandma wanted. If grandma didn’t want to go we didn’t do. My mother has always said that I will not be put in the position like she was. That’s where a living will comes in a will needs to be made and notarized and funeral arrangements need to be made. My mother won’t live with me when that time comes to sell her house and go to assisted living, she and my husband don’t get along, so that wouldn’t work(Aging parents: 8 warning signs of health …show more content…
Watch the rugs, be careful of falling and make sure when your mobility does go down be prepared. Find a plan to pay for nursing home care if you can, if they still offer it. Taking charge of her health and make sure she is eating right and exercising daily.
All the legal stuff is don’t and out of the way, also don’t forget to tell your children that your last wishes are on paper and who has those arrangements. My mom planning now because my husband, so she doesn’t what to make any decisions for her. How she starts is many decisions, but if she has a plan in her mind then that’s where to begin. Mom’s planning on being able to stay in her home.
Making repairs were needed to have people in place when something does go wrong, being able to get around in her house. As she’s said she’s going to stay in her house as long as she can, and if that’s stay mobile and doing things, even things she shouldn’t, she will. There are 8 things you shouldn’t say to your aging parents. Here are the eight examples, 1. How can you not remember this? 2. You can do this if you have tried, 3. I already showed you on how to make the phone just yesterday, 4. What does that information have to do with what we were talking about? 5. You have told me that already. 6. I want this couch when you die. 7. Wake up mom or wake up Dad, I want you to see this, and the last final one is 8. Hello mom or Hello dad your grandson’s name is Tom or your