Reflective Essay On Exemplary Life

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Moving on with life and forgiving people, as well as yourself, is something Stacey has always done extremely well. She does not fixate on the small things and knows that something may happen and may hurt her, but at the end of the day everyone deserves forgiveness. The only exceptions for not forgiving someone in her eyes is if a law had been broken in the process. She has the ability to get over something quicker than most people and just accept that it happened, while allowing forgiveness to take place right way. This quality is one at which I seem to do very well with when it comes to others, but in regards to forgiving myself it does not come so easily. Stacey has found a way to fully concur both these aspects of this specific characteristic. …show more content…
Going off to college out-of-state has taught me more about who I am and who I want to become, even though I thought I already knew. I thought I knew the meaning of my life and how I would reach one at which I’d consider exemplary, but I was wrong. I was wrong about which path I should be taking, and I was wrong with how I wanted to take it. The environmental change which I had chosen to immerse myself in during my college experience, reshaped my entire identity and made me realize what I used to want in life was nowhere near where I truly wanted to be. I am thankful for my past and how I got to where I am today, but I would never want to go back to a soul who is lost within a world full of misunderstandings. I misunderstood who I was, and what aspects of my identity were done for me or for others. I now know the meaning of life and it is to find what path one must take to live an exemplary life. I may keep switching paths based on the choices I make throughout my life, but one thing is for sure, I do not want to live in the shadows anymore. I do not want to go through the motions of everyday life anymore. I want to reach what I see to be an exemplary life and hold onto it forever. No matter what happens, I will not let go of it because life is truly a never ending

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