Reflective Essay On Bad Behavior

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I am originally from Santa Ana and I have had bad behavior problems. I’ve always been a troublemaker during my life; no one could stop me. My parents tried to change the habit of changing my life around ,and act the proper way of acting. Peers try to fix my problems, but I would not make the good choice. I've been getting into fights, going to Juvenile Hall, and be in danger with the problems I was in. School was not for me, At the time, I would have rather been with my friends than in school because I was free with my friends. I faced many consequences and learned throughout them. After I was in fights or Juvenile hall, I was sent to a therapist. I changed my whole life after I was sent to a therapists and started talking with my parents …show more content…
I listened on the advices that my parents told me and looking back through all my experiences with my parents which was school and I also realized I would not appreciate about everything they have told me. They always told me to do well in school and have good grades as well with my behavior. Growing up in the streets I was always told by the neighbors to not hang out with the wrong people. As I was listening to the advice I was told about, I did not appreciate because I was distracted with the bad friends doing bad problems in the streets. When I was released from Juvenile Hall that's when I realized that all these problems I did were not the right choices to do if I want to be successful in life. I learned on what I was going through and fixed my problems from the choices i've been …show more content…
What changed me into a good person I was starting to realize everything I did which the day my dad gave me full day lesson learned. All these years that I was going through I looked back and wonder how bad I turned when I would hang out who you call “friends. “ I was so much in danger and in bad health. Which made me wake up and start changing my life again. What my parents did to change my life around again was that they talked to me and said if I want to be kicked out into the streets if that's what I wanted. I realized from there that I need to step it up and turn my life around. I started to leave my friends behind and be myself. I started to go to school everyday on

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