Conformity is an issue many teens face today. It takes over the average teenager's mind, so they choose to conform to the popular trends and fashion; therefore, they lose sight of what should mean the most, being themselves. How can we be our self without being called weird, stupid, freak and etc. When it comes to the topic of conformity most of us will readily agree that we want to be different instead of being who isn’t you. Many of us would give up our uniqueness, extraordinary distinctiveness, just to fit in a group.…
During every portion of life there are a number of stages that one passes through to progress and grow into the person that they are at present. While there is still room to further one’s self in adulthood, it’s usually from birth to adolescence that offers the largest span of change. Growth, in both the physical and mental sense, occurs at a rapid rate throughout these years that can alter a person significantly, however outside influences such as environment or opportunities play their part in molding youths. One’s emotions, social skills, beliefs, relationships, intelligence, and many other aspects of life are under near constant construction while in the process of developing that leaves them susceptible to change. Contained within this…
J.R was born in Tijuana, Mexico. She is currently living a few miles from the Mexico-United States border in San Ysidro, California. She recently turned 15 years old and is in her sophomore year of high school. J. R. is fully bilingual in both English and Spanish. She has olive skin, hazel eyes, and has naturally curly brown hair.…
Identity, something which everyone has. The aspect that truly defines who someone is. Do we have full control over our identity, or do we gain it through exposure to life? Many people can argue both sides, but which one is reality. The more likely scenario is that it is defined by our family and friends.…
According to Jame Marcia, there are four different stages of identity that a person can align themselves with given a certain aspect of their life. The stages are diffusion, foreclosure, moratorium, and achievement. Diffusion is the state of having no clear idea of one’s identity and making no attempt to find it. foreclosure is the state of blindly accepting one’s identity and values that were given in childhood by family and significant others. Moratorium is when the adolescent has a vague or ill-formed ideological and occupational commitments; he/she is still looking for their identity.…
Self-reflection is a very important part of personal growth in adolescents. In an interview with The Atlantic, William Deresiewicz, a former Yale professor, revealed how contemporary education can stunt an adolescent’s growth. He stated, “The fact that we’ve created a system where kids are constantly busy, and have no time for solitude or reflection,…
Identities developed during childhood can impact adulthood. Some people are consciously aware of their identities and some are not. The social messages that people receive can shape their identities both positively and negatively. Experiences also greatly affect identities. Two identities from my childhood that shaped my adulthood are being a military child and being a female.…
Growing up and finding oneself is never easy, especially when outside sources pull one in various directions. Adolescence is a time where children search for their identity, to discover who they are and who they are meant to be. Many young people rebel and reject everything they are told they should do. In Paul’s Case and Two Kinds, both main characters feel pressure from others on how to live their lives. These stories examine two extremely different outcomes of the search to find oneself.…
Emerging Adulthood is an ambiguous period in a person’s life. It is a period that most people do not know who they are as a person or know what to expect next. Throughout the first week of class we learned where the term emerging adults came from and how it became such a phenomenon in the field of Psychology. Arnett (2014) defines emerging adulthood as an age of identity exploration, instability, self-focus, feeling of in-between, and possibilities; which he called the key features of emerging adulthood. After learning about the five key features in emerging adults, there were three that stood out to be me; the age of identity exploration, instability and self-focus.…
People have always been interested in the idea of finding out about personal identity, what makes you the same person as you were when you were five and what will make you the same person when you are eighty. Derek Parfit summed up this idea by saying “Whatever happens between now and any future time, either I shall still exist, or I shall not. Any future experience will either be my experience, or it will not.” (Parfit- 186), which is what personal identity looks into. This essay will discuss whether personal identity is a matter of physical or psychological continuity, taking into account the famous ideas of philosophers such as John Locke, Derek Parfit and Bernard Williams.…
Most humans are clueless about their true identity and what their goal in life is. We all go through many periods in our lives where we are interested in finding our true selves. However, knowing yourself can be a very difficult thing to accomplish because the ego can cloud our judgement of the self. When individuals conquer their own ego their true self is revealed. Only when this is done, can we reawaken ourselves and realize everything that was hindering us.…
When I was 10 years old I was just an ordinary little girl who loved to climb trees, play with cars, play soccer, and pretend to be a lawyer or a doctor. I was pretty much a happy, innocent child whose life was surrounded by play. However, at the age 11 there was an important transition in my life– I entered middle school. By this time, I stopped playing with cars and stopped pretending to be a doctor or a lawyer.…
These feelings of self-worth and confidence assisted me as I navigated my way through the identity versus role confusion stage. Erikson (as cited in Swartwood, p. 84) states that the developmental crisis of this stage is centered on the establishment of identity. Role confusion can be experience by an adolescent who does not successfully establish an identity in occupation, gender roles, politics, and religion. Erikson’s work has been expanded on by James Marcia (as cited in Swartwood, p. 84), who has recognized four “identity statuses.” These statuses “explain unique differences in how young adults search for an answer to…” who they are, based on their levels of exploration and commitment (Swartwood, p. 84).…
As a teenager I have never thought about what the hardest, or best part of being a teen has been, I usually just live with it because it is my life and it is everyday. Sitting here, thinking about it, being a teen is one of the hardest stages of life, but it's also one of the best. I would say it's hard because you are expected to act like an adult, all emotions are everywhere and everything you do as a teen defines you as an adult. It could be the best because your not treated like a baby no more, people trust you to make the right decision and you get more freedom. Even though it can be a hard time i would say that you always have people around you who will always be there for you, they will always have your back.…
The Life of a Teenager Lazy, irresponsible, and immature, that is how most people would say defines a common day teenager. What causes this stereotype? Not all people in their teenage years act completely recklessly. If a teenager was asked if they thought they were unproductive, forgetful, and premature, most would say no, especially those involved in school, sports, and whatever other activities. School, for students who put in effort, is stressful and tiring.…