Reuven experiences this up close and personal when he referred to a controversial topic at the Saunders’ dinner table. “Reb Saunders stared at me, his eyes suddenly wild with rage, his beard trembling.” (197) He then starts screaming at the top of his lungs. He had tried to keep his appearance of hospitality, but he could not contain his displeasure with Reuven’s opinion. While Mr. Saunders never really seems like a kind person in the story, this passage shows how brutal he can really be. Reuven saw that Reb could be harsh in his time there, but Danny has to experience it every single day.
The way Reb parents his children is incredibly unusual. For some reason, he will not speak to his children whatsoever, excluding when they discuss Talmud. This has a huge detrimental effect on their relationship. When Danny tells Reuven about it, he has difficulty even comprehending it, “I’d hate to have my father not talk to me.” (116) Parents need to leave the door open for their children to vent their feelings by talking, and Reb completely slams that door shut. This is simply not a smart way to go about parenting, which is why nobody does