It can almost go without saying that I have my work cut out for me over the next couple of years. I have set before me a really demanding list of goals, and in order for me to achieve these goals I am going to have to systematically apply all of the psychological concepts that I have learned to my everyday life. Starting with the most basic concepts like getting enough sleep, or meditating will assist me by means of escape from everyday struggles. Achieving each of the aforementioned goals will help minimize my stress, and benefit me in ways that I may not be able to identify at this point because I am not there yet; however, optimistically speaking, there are undeniable benefits to achieving my goals. …show more content…
I cannot explain how this event is going to affect how it is going to benefit me in relation to the psychological concepts of my own daily stresses. It is hard for me to fathom because I am so overjoyed that this life has given me the opportunity to not only redeem myself from the horrible addict that I was, but to reward me with the potential of fatherhood. First of all, the benefit that a child will bring to completing a family circle for Bryan and I is, in itself, a miraculous event. An event that will bring much eustress into our lives because we are going to have to learn how this little person learns, how they react to us, how to react to them, what they need to survive, and how we are going to be able to provide those things to them. The benefits of these small events are almost incomprehensible because I keep relating these feelings back to the indescribable happiness, and feelings of self-worth that I received when Cheyanne was born. Right after her birth I felt as if though I were on top of the world, and that nothing could get any better. I… I just can’t even begin to explain the benefits, or its relation to my personal psychological well-being. Everything that she did, and still does, amazes me. And rightfully so, I am literately witnessing the progression of human life through the everyday growth of my daughter, and imagining that I will be able to do that again is just beyond my …show more content…
Too much distress can stimulate responses in my body that are not at all helpful in the progress that I yearn to achieve. For example, both studies proved that prolonged stress can affect the progression of disease, and I have a “terminal” (I dislike that word because it means deadly, and I am not going anywhere anytime soon) illness that could easily progress by experiencing prolonged stress. Learning to manage this stress is of the utmost importance in regards to my emotional, mental, and physical well-being because without being emotionally, mentally, or physically healthy I cannot accomplish anything that I set out to do. It is a simple concept really, and it is all dependent on my ability to appraise and cope with everyday threats and challenges. Dr. Cohen, Dr. Lesserman, and their teams of colleagues scientifically proved