“What is Rashelle’s one big thing?” is the question I have to ask myself and in answering the question I must be willing to be vulnerable in order to decrease my immunity to change. I have known for quite some time that perhaps the one thing that is holding me back is trust. Trust has to be earned in ordered for me to grant it. Additionally, I have realized that my mistrust has prevented me from advancing in some areas in my life. The concept of we are our own enemy rings true for me. I often hear what people say and interrupted 2 or 3 different ways before I give a slow and calculated response. I often try to stop myself and try and give genuine answers, however; sometimes my issues with trust creep up and I give a calculated
