Your parenting style is the key to raising responsible children. The "Do as I Say, Not as I Do" parenting style doesn't work anymore.
Raising a child is no piece of cake! The Good Book says: "Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.... Proverbs 22:6"
Easier said than done. You will have momentary breakdowns and hair raising situations, your temper would simply tear the roof top! Who is to be blamed for that? Would it be you or your child? This is a question all parents need to ask themselves before justifying the whole act of nurturing as a difficult errand. Undoubtedly raising disciplined children is the most difficult but an important job a parent has but not impossible if you are determined …show more content…
They understand and act according to the situation in a better fashion and learn to adjust better.
● Positive reinforcement ● Eye contact ● inculcating optimism
When your child misbehaves, get down to their level and converse with direct eye contact. Do not grab them or pull them. This would make them more violent and adamant and paint a shabby picture of you as a parent. Stoop down and with a low yet stern voice and expression repeat "NO" a few times. Your child will throw tantrums, bring the roof down but they will soon calm down too if only you do not lose your patience and remain calm yet assertive. Even if it takes a while for your child to acknowledge the right behavior, you wait.
Children while growing up tend to bite or suddenly hit you and that's not because they are violent.. They are still very young and immature with limited skills of expression. As parents it becomes your responsibility to help your child understand the other ways of seeking attention or calling out or putting forward their demands. The 'quality time' parents spend with their children will go a long way in molding children into responsible adults who will make this world a better place with their caring and
Raising a child is no piece of cake! The Good Book says: "Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.... Proverbs 22:6"
Easier said than done. You will have momentary breakdowns and hair raising situations, your temper would simply tear the roof top! Who is to be blamed for that? Would it be you or your child? This is a question all parents need to ask themselves before justifying the whole act of nurturing as a difficult errand. Undoubtedly raising disciplined children is the most difficult but an important job a parent has but not impossible if you are determined …show more content…
They understand and act according to the situation in a better fashion and learn to adjust better.
● Positive reinforcement ● Eye contact ● inculcating optimism
When your child misbehaves, get down to their level and converse with direct eye contact. Do not grab them or pull them. This would make them more violent and adamant and paint a shabby picture of you as a parent. Stoop down and with a low yet stern voice and expression repeat "NO" a few times. Your child will throw tantrums, bring the roof down but they will soon calm down too if only you do not lose your patience and remain calm yet assertive. Even if it takes a while for your child to acknowledge the right behavior, you wait.
Children while growing up tend to bite or suddenly hit you and that's not because they are violent.. They are still very young and immature with limited skills of expression. As parents it becomes your responsibility to help your child understand the other ways of seeking attention or calling out or putting forward their demands. The 'quality time' parents spend with their children will go a long way in molding children into responsible adults who will make this world a better place with their caring and