Pros And Cons Of The Undercover Parent

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Writer, Harlen Coben in an essay, “The Undercover Parent”, published on March 16th, 2008, discusses some of the pros and cons of installing spyware on a child's computer and argues that it is for the child's safety, therefore parents are justified in it. He supports his claim first by the use of rhetorical question in order to cause his readers to formulate their own opinions on the topic presented, before attempting to persuade them towards his own opinion, second by the use of strong emotional examples so that his audience fears what could happen to their own children through the internet, and finally through the use of transitions to ensure that his audience remains engaged and receptive to his argument throughout

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