Pros And Cons Of Forced Early Marriages

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To make a change I suggest that we should end forced early marriages. I have few female friends who went to high school with me. Two of them got married during junior year and other four of them got married senior year. I used to follow three of them on Instagram. I talked with one of them and asked if she got married so early. She said “I didn’t have a choice, my parent new my husband’s parents. And it just happened really quickly.” She never finished her senior year of high school. She changed from a girl who used to mess around with everyone to a very serious girl. She stopped posting and even deleted a lot of her posts. Not just forced early marriages, but also having girl and boy equality in school. My friend never finished her senior

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