Pros And Cons Of Being A Toddler

Improved Essays
While browsing Build-A-Bear with my mother and my niece in the mall, my niece saw a Frozen bear that she really wanted. When told "No" she began to pitch a fit. She was screaming, banging her fist on the ground, and wildly kicking her legs. After 20 minutes of this my mother gave in and we left the store with not one bear but with five! Seeing how this technique worked for my toddler niece, I thought I would give it a try. When passing a beautiful pair of winter boots that would look wonderful on me. I asked my mother if she could get them for me, she of course said no. I began to wail and whine, my mother just stared blankly at me. When that didn't work I plopped down on the and kicked and screamed at the top of my lungs. The other shoppers were looking with curious faces and my mother simply turned around and walked away. Needless to say I did not get the boots. Many people say that toddlers and teenagers share the same similarities. This is somewhat true, they both love to sleep, eat, and complain about everything. The difference comes into play when looking at the reasons why and how they behave in those peculiar ways. …show more content…
Who wouldn't want to say goodbye to stress and worries? If given the opportunity to become a toddler again or be a teenager, I would definitely pick the toddler.
A modern teenager can be harsh and over-stressed, while as a toddler there are no specific expectations. Television shows and adults who have their lives together, create a false illusion of what life should be. Every sensible person longs for the times where they are carefree and there is nothing repressing the joys of this world. The truth is they are two completely different stages in life, one deals with facing a new and strange world while the other is transitioning into a world that should be familiar, but somehow is

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Childhood no longer involves playing with innocent toys and watching silly cartoons. Instead, childhood now involves applying makeup and smoking marijuana. Society has impacted children’s lives in both positive and negative aspects—a negative aspect being the creation of the “tween” generation. Children ages 8 to 12 are referred to as tweens, and are characterized by their premature, adult-like attitudes, looks, and actions. In an unfortunately serious, and realistic essay titled, “Tweens: Ten Going On Sixteen”, author, Kay S. Hymowitz, explains the saddening truth of a deteriorating childhood and the affects the newly named “tween” generation has had on it.…

    • 1093 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    During every portion of life there are a number of stages that one passes through to progress and grow into the person that they are at present. While there is still room to further one’s self in adulthood, it’s usually from birth to adolescence that offers the largest span of change. Growth, in both the physical and mental sense, occurs at a rapid rate throughout these years that can alter a person significantly, however outside influences such as environment or opportunities play their part in molding youths. One’s emotions, social skills, beliefs, relationships, intelligence, and many other aspects of life are under near constant construction while in the process of developing that leaves them susceptible to change. Contained within this…

    • 1319 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    One of the most prevalent desires in a person's life is to find what he or she is meant to fulfill in his or her lifetime. Especially for adolescents, finding where one stands in a world full of chaos is a daunting struggle and a strenuous journey. In The Cather in the Rye, by J.D. Salinger, Holden is a troubled boy who is struggling to find himself and his place in the world. His journey to achieving this goal makes The Cather in the Rye an overall optimistic book because teenagers can relate to Holden's perplexed psychological state of being stuck in a place between childhood and adulthood, it inspires the reader to strive for more in his or her lifetime, and it ends on a happy note. When surrounded by an environment that is constantly changing and growing for better or for worse, it isn't difficult for adolescents to get lost and caught up in the confusing transition between the two worlds of adulthood and childhood.…

    • 1031 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Adolescence: it’s a period of turmoil, no doubt about it. Young adults are discovering the physical changes that accompany adulthood, constantly fighting off emotional waves of hormones, and generally experiencing puberty in all its glory. However, as intense as these pubertal changes may be, the chaos of adolescence is nothing without the fact that young adults are beginning to drastically change the way they view the world. Where before these individuals may have been concerned with simple pleasures and straightforward emotions, adolescents are now beginning to learn about the adult world and the complexities it presents. According to psychologist and aging expert Robert Havighurst, there are a series of tasks that young adults must accomplish…

    • 1396 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Due to our own human nature, people learn the best through their experiences, both positive and negative. It is important for teenagers to understand the process of maturing, especially through how their actions can affect other people. A Separate Peace should not be banned and should be used in high school curriculums because it is a relatable story of young adults maturing through experiences.…

    • 495 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    As a young girl, I was always very overzealous and enthusiastic. However, as I grew into the infamous ‘teen’ stage, I lost my direction. Body: I endured a couple of hardships and through that struggle, picked up bad habits and thinking patterns. My views on life and people and circumstance and morals were simply wrong.…

    • 854 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    As a parent how much responsibility should you trust your child with, before it is considered too much? One of the many controversies now is whether or not teenage girls should be allowed to get birth control without the permission of their parents first. Even though everyone has their own opinion on this manner, who is to say whose right and who’s wrong? From the ages of 13-18 the amount of stress on teens is unreal.…

    • 1220 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Many parents put in a lot of work to ensure their children’s success. Other parents are less involved in placing their children in several activities to ensure their children’s success. What is the best way to raise children? What are some factors that affect child rearing? Several factors are known to affect how a child is raised, and determining a superior child rearing method is complex, with many pros and cons associated with each method.…

    • 1595 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Many babies will be crawling or finding ways of being mobile. They are also able to sit up without any support. These new movements mean that babies can explore more and also spend a little time sitting and playing. When they are mobile they can move quite fast, so this a period in which adults really need to think about safety. As well as…

    • 5563 Words
    • 23 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Adolescence is the important transition period from a little dependent kid to an independent adult. Many people believe that teenager’s brain only grow bigger in this period, however, the teenager’s brain is neither an “older” little kid’s brain, nor a half mature adult brain (Giedd, 2008). In fact, a teenager’s brain is developing at one of the most complex stages in their lifetime. The period of puberty also is defined as the most troublesome time. When people talk about teenagers, they always connect them with words like adventure, trouble-maker, aggressiveness, self-centeredness, or radicalness, etc.…

    • 1050 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Rough Draft - Unit 2 EA 2 Starting school later may have some bad effects, but it also has many good effects too. It is a proven fact that a later school time helps kids education and health. Not to mention they won't be as tired because teenagers almost always stay up late and sleep in. School should start later so that kids aren't always incredibly tired and have a better health.…

    • 631 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Teens Vs Toddlers Essay

    • 878 Words
    • 4 Pages

    Both teens and toddlers are well versed in expressions of frustration; both love expressing their dislike for things, people, and situations. Toddlers hold emotional upheaval cards in their pocket at all times. Toddlers are like itchy trigger fingers holding loaded guns. One such toddler demonstrated this principle at the park one afternoon, just before naptime. This toddler’s disgust was spread freely among the eyes and ears of everyone he passed while leaving the park.…

    • 878 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Identity Vs Role Confusion

    • 1028 Words
    • 5 Pages

    Erik Erikson was a well-known psychologist and is best known for developing the concept of identity crisis. His greatest innovation was when he set up the eight stages of development; that shape personality and experiences throughout childhood to adulthood. He believed that one must pass through one stage before entering the next stage. The eight stages are: Trust vs. Mistrust, Autonomy vs. Shame & Doubt, Initiative vs. Guilt, Industry vs. Inferiority, Identity vs. Role Confusion, Intimacy vs. Isolation, Generativity vs. Stagnation, and Integrity vs. Despair.…

    • 1028 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    It is a universal truth that children envy adults and adults envy children. What is ironic is they are both right. When transitioning from childhood to adulthood, a child has to leave his or her carefree world behind to take on the real world. There are many similarities between these two stages of life such as the continuous desire to learn and the necessity of friendship. The differences outweigh the similarities though, including the difficulties of aging, the burden of responsibilities, and the troubles of decision making.…

    • 785 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Youth Today Youths are different from yesterday. Youth today do not remember years ago when it didn’t take much for kids to have a smile on their face. Previous generations, they enjoyed bike riding, fun times at the park, movies, and sports. Young people are different than twenty years ago. Today’s teenagers are influenced by Smart Phones, TV images, and Social Media.…

    • 719 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays