You may be wanting to take the easy way out and just text her/him, since it’s normal to want to avoid conflict and it’s not right it’s part of being mature. Be direct and honest, yet be nice and gentle. No one wants to be left or feel empty but at the same time you wants it to be over with. Relationships usually end because of behavioral issues, like what someone did or didn’t do. When your talking don’t make it seem like it’s all the other persons fault like don’t bring up dumb stuff they did because that will only make it worse. You can be like it’s not about you it’s about me even though it’s really about them because if they were good enough or meet your expectations you wouldn’t be in this position and breaking up. Don’t give them hope or promise something you know you wont do. You may feel guilty so you offer a something like we can still friends with your now ex, but unless that’s what you really want, don’t make promises you can’t keep just to make them feel better or you may risk having to do this whole situation all
You may be wanting to take the easy way out and just text her/him, since it’s normal to want to avoid conflict and it’s not right it’s part of being mature. Be direct and honest, yet be nice and gentle. No one wants to be left or feel empty but at the same time you wants it to be over with. Relationships usually end because of behavioral issues, like what someone did or didn’t do. When your talking don’t make it seem like it’s all the other persons fault like don’t bring up dumb stuff they did because that will only make it worse. You can be like it’s not about you it’s about me even though it’s really about them because if they were good enough or meet your expectations you wouldn’t be in this position and breaking up. Don’t give them hope or promise something you know you wont do. You may feel guilty so you offer a something like we can still friends with your now ex, but unless that’s what you really want, don’t make promises you can’t keep just to make them feel better or you may risk having to do this whole situation all