Premarital Counseling Case Study

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The purpose of premarital counseling session is to assist couples in getting ready for matrimony. Nevertheless, it is a great way for couples establish a powerful, vigorous affiliation with each other. Joseph & Subhashini (2012) argues that “Individual who go through the process of marital counseling are expected to acquire the coping capacity in facing difficult situations in ones marriage”(p.5). After reading several threads f rom my classmates post last week, I saw that many of them had premarital counseling sessions. Jessica Fuentes (2016) (Liberty University) envisions (although not married at this time) her premarital counseling discussion should be geared toward finances, goals, communication and commitment. She added, premarital counseling …show more content…
Student) stated that during a marriage one should be committed to God first and then to each other. He also stated boundaries should be set within marriages in regards to family, children, work, etc. During his premarital session, Glen stated that the pastor warned them of outside intruders interfering in their marriage which could result in conflict issues between him and his spouse. The best approach for Glen and his wife is to develop a love maps and homework assignments, and growth exercises. I would also use the PREPARE/ENRICH inventory. The inventory will help Glen and his spouse explore their relationship and their families of origin using couple and family maps While using the PREPARE/ENRICH exercises, Glen and his wife can develop a Wish list using daily Dialogue. (Olson, …show more content…
During her premarital counseling sessions, a book entitles “Boundaries in Marriages was read. The book inspired her and her fiancé open themselves up to each other without causing harm within the relationship. Communication was also played a major part in the premarital sessions for the couples. The pastor commended Kahla and her husband during their session concerning how well the lines of communication were among them. I would encourage growth exercises. In addition to Kahla and her spouse reading books, I would implement the PREPARED/ENRICH inventory. The inventory will help Kahla explore their relationship and promote honest and personalize diaologe about their

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