The last strategy in positive guidance is conflict resolution. Conflict resolution might be the most effective way to teach how to solve problems. Conflict resolution includes five steps to be effective, first: define the problem for the child; hitting others is wrong and it hurts them. Second: invite the child to participate in solving the problem; the teacher and the mother should make sure that Sakai understands that he is doing something wrong, and then ask him how we can solve this problem, how can we play nicely and friendly. Third: ways to solve the problem with the child; we can let him choose a way to solve the problem, also we can give some tips like: do not run in the class, no grabbling or pulling, no throwing, always walk and look
