There are more negative effects of adoption than positive, but not every child will feel the negative effect of his or her adoption. A negative effect is that the child may become vulnerable because they were not involved in the decision of his or her adoption and also have no control over the loss of their birth parents (“The Good”). The length of time before the child was placed into a permanent home, the number of moves, the quality of care, the child’s response to change affects how the child acts (SC4). If a child is moved around a lot, they may be more hesitant towards their adoption. Also, if the child was not cared for well enough in their old home, it will take time for the child to trust their new family. Some people believe that all adopted children are affected by losing one or more of their caregivers and by all the transitions made through adoption. Because adopted children may feel abandonment, as they become adults they may end a relationship so the other person doesn’t leave them first (BE2). This is because they do not want to be hurt again if someone wants to leave him or her
There are more negative effects of adoption than positive, but not every child will feel the negative effect of his or her adoption. A negative effect is that the child may become vulnerable because they were not involved in the decision of his or her adoption and also have no control over the loss of their birth parents (“The Good”). The length of time before the child was placed into a permanent home, the number of moves, the quality of care, the child’s response to change affects how the child acts (SC4). If a child is moved around a lot, they may be more hesitant towards their adoption. Also, if the child was not cared for well enough in their old home, it will take time for the child to trust their new family. Some people believe that all adopted children are affected by losing one or more of their caregivers and by all the transitions made through adoption. Because adopted children may feel abandonment, as they become adults they may end a relationship so the other person doesn’t leave them first (BE2). This is because they do not want to be hurt again if someone wants to leave him or her