Relationships are like roller-coaster you start off slow and then you begin hiking up the steep mountain, soon you reach the top now your free falling enjoying the ride, but what do you do when the roller-coaster comes to an end and it’s time to exit the cart? Have you ever had troubles cutting the string that’s attached to the perfect match that recently burnt out? Or had many failed attempts to walk away from the past? Here are my steps on breaking out the cocoon and becoming a free beautiful butterfly.
Before attempting the BIG chop grab a blank sheet of paper and a permanent marker. The permanent marker is to show you how inerasable your decision at the end would be. Make a straight line down the center of the paper and each sides of the …show more content…
It may not be your fault but you’re handing over devastating news that would potentially destroy the person’s feelings and day, so by saying it’s YOU takes some weight off their shoulders.
STEP THREE: while in the park or a place of choice, ask to take a walk with the person. While walking start off by telling the person you’ve been thinking lately and recently came to a conclusion that being in a relationship with them is not quite healthy for you at the moment. Now they’re going to ask why or something in that ball park. It’s time to pull out your speech.
It’s time for the moment of truth. Your speech should be nothing but the truth you don’t have to be harsh while telling the person why you can’t be with them but you shouldn’t lie. Lying is just as worst as cheating. Trust me I learned my lesson.
STEP FOUR: show the person your still there for them in time of needs, but cannot be with them emotionally. Also explain to them if their right for each other love would bring them back together in the future if their soul mates. Even if you know for fact you wouldn’t in a million years date them again still say it. Just like a resume when you stretch the truth a little, same procedures
Before attempting the BIG chop grab a blank sheet of paper and a permanent marker. The permanent marker is to show you how inerasable your decision at the end would be. Make a straight line down the center of the paper and each sides of the …show more content…
It may not be your fault but you’re handing over devastating news that would potentially destroy the person’s feelings and day, so by saying it’s YOU takes some weight off their shoulders.
STEP THREE: while in the park or a place of choice, ask to take a walk with the person. While walking start off by telling the person you’ve been thinking lately and recently came to a conclusion that being in a relationship with them is not quite healthy for you at the moment. Now they’re going to ask why or something in that ball park. It’s time to pull out your speech.
It’s time for the moment of truth. Your speech should be nothing but the truth you don’t have to be harsh while telling the person why you can’t be with them but you shouldn’t lie. Lying is just as worst as cheating. Trust me I learned my lesson.
STEP FOUR: show the person your still there for them in time of needs, but cannot be with them emotionally. Also explain to them if their right for each other love would bring them back together in the future if their soul mates. Even if you know for fact you wouldn’t in a million years date them again still say it. Just like a resume when you stretch the truth a little, same procedures