The easiest solution for parents who can’t care for their child would be to choose adoption. However; when this doesn’t happen and the child gets taken from the parents, the child will end up in some sort of state care. This can range from an orphanage, group home, or foster care. For a child to go through any of these homes is often times challenging, and can even be traumatic for several reasons. There have been thousands of reports of children being abused in foster care or group homes. Foster parents can be abusive physically or sexually, which can leave the child in worse shape mentally then they were before they got to the foster or group home. One case “involving a 12-year- old girl who was placed in a foster home with Todd and Lisa Mortensen led to the girl being sexually abused” by the faster father, Todd. He was also convicted of “65 counts of criminal sexual penetration and 20 counts of criminal sexual contact against another girl” that had also been
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This differs greatly from physical abandonment because they were never actually abandoned. Growing up their parents didn’t give them the “emotional support and environment needed for a child to grow and thrive” (Band Back Together par.8). People growing up in these types of homes often try to please their parents by hiding their true self in order to be accepted and not rejected from the family. The children learn that messing up and making a mistake is unacceptable, showing their feelings are against the rules, and their feelings aren’t real. Often times the kids can’t live up to the unrealistic expectations of the parents and grow up feeling unwanted and unloved. This is a huge problem because people are supposed to learn to love and care for people at a young age. Kids who don’t have this foundation may find it difficult to love someone like a person is supposed to and find it difficult to accept love from others as
This differs greatly from physical abandonment because they were never actually abandoned. Growing up their parents didn’t give them the “emotional support and environment needed for a child to grow and thrive” (Band Back Together par.8). People growing up in these types of homes often try to please their parents by hiding their true self in order to be accepted and not rejected from the family. The children learn that messing up and making a mistake is unacceptable, showing their feelings are against the rules, and their feelings aren’t real. Often times the kids can’t live up to the unrealistic expectations of the parents and grow up feeling unwanted and unloved. This is a huge problem because people are supposed to learn to love and care for people at a young age. Kids who don’t have this foundation may find it difficult to love someone like a person is supposed to and find it difficult to accept love from others as