Reflective Essay On Thanksgiving And The Loss Of My Family

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Of course, most of our cherished memories revolve around the holidays and the traditions that we maintained for so many years. Candlelight services on Christmas Eve, Pajamas and teddy bears before Santa, Gram’s gravy on Christmas morning and of course our annual Christmas Day movie. Then there were the summertime memories centralized on your backyard pool with a large fun island and a floating basketball goal. As the summer sun would slip below the horizon, our mouths watered with anticipation of dinner from the grill followed by Kunta cream.
Although life has not been easy for your only daughter, she has rendered her best efforts to ensure her children enjoy a full life and with the help of you and my mother this objective was accomplished. We can honestly say that we seized the day and embraced every tick of the clock. Following my mother’s heart attack, life was to transform forevermore and the warm and golden days at no point would return. Worthy moments remained in our family, but this season of time was not comparable to the preceding years. From 2003 to 2014, life pressed on although in a less joyful fashion.
To sum things up, we were a family. We were a tightly knit and loyal family, or
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Your actions in the past year leave us dumbfounded and shocked. You let Thanksgiving, Christmas, Valentine’s Day, birthdays and other occasions slide right by without a thought of those you left behind. While you spent these special days with your new replacement family, we spent those days alone, just the three of us. Can you imagine our loneliness? Can you imagine spending our first Christmas without Grams alone because you elected to spend the holidays with your new family? Honestly, I do not have faith you care that we are in the deepest pain of our lives and that two of us are in psychiatric care at this time seeking help as casualties of this past

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