Why It Is Important To Live By A Code

My daughter and I recently purchased a picture for her dorm room. She will be going to college in a few days so a little decorating seemed in order. The picture has a few words, but the core word is, “Be True”. This slogan can be taken several ways, but the meaning is simple enough. Strive to be true to your values and beliefs. Character matters. People are always looking for symbols, signs, logos that will help them remember their core values. Some people wear crosses. When we get married, we wear rings. Others even choose tattoos. All these things highlight the need we have to live by a code. My code involves living by the teachings of Christ and the Bible. You may not believe that you live by a code, but when confronted by a set of circumstances that require moral clarity, your core values will shine through. Life seems to be full of these moments too.
I’m constantly talking to people who face compromising situations and must draw on their core values. Although some make the wrong decisions, it’s always exciting to hear about a person who acts morally and lives by the code they were taught. Whether this requires not …show more content…
When we face tests or temptations like these, it’s good for us to know how to stand up and be counted. It’s hard to not be swayed by others and keep the right company, but knowing who you are helps you identify your core values and hold strong. How do we discover our identity and hone in on our core values? In the book I am writing about preparing for marriage, I hit on the topic of identity, which is one way to identify your core values. I believe that knowing who you are at the core level involves your relationship with God. When you discover that you are God’s own child and that He loves you with everlasting love, you discover much about your mission in life and calling. This is the beginning of staying true to yourself. Here are a few principles I’ve