Reflection Paper On Separation

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The Separation I have been blessed with a set of parents and a sister that love me unconditionally. They have provided me with all the necessary tools I have needed in order to be where I am today. My parents always made sure I was caught up in school and that I was having fun and doing what I loved. Countless trips to the lake, dad coaching my baseball teams, and a trip to the coast and mountains every year. My parents loved me and I knew they loved each other. We were one big happy family. As I grew older I began to see the tension that my parents really had. My dad would come home from work late at night, and if not late he would always be angry from the work he had back at the office. I began to realize that work was the driving force …show more content…
I was in shock. I felt a shot through my body and I began to become speechless. I was in constant questioning about why I couldn’t live a “normal life” like I did before these disputes. Now everything would change. My mom, sister, and myself would be moving back to North Carolina as my dad continued his career in New Hampshire. I would once again be getting used to a new world and this time without my mom and dad together. Now all I wanted was my parents to be together and happy again. The separation made me grow up faster than I wanted too and I was so confused on why all this was …show more content…
When being dropped off to go see my dad, they would sit and talk for longer than normal and they seemed to be getting along. I began to notice trends of phone calls between the two. It was like love was being found again. This moment in time was extremely confusing for me (and still is at times). A couple years passed and my parents relationship continued to grow. We even went on a family vacation for the first time in 4 years. Morale was high and our family was finally going back to the ways they were before. Somehow, my parents began to see each other more and more and things went back to “normal”. My mom, sister, and I moved to Greenville, South Carolina to live with my dad. Eight years later and things are still the same. My parents are happier than ever together and our family is one. I am blessed that my parents overcame some obstacles and figured out how to love one another once

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