Discovering who we really are and what we are all about is a life-long process. Our search for our identity and what defines who we are is a puzzle consisting of many different pieces. Identity is defined as our self-portrait that is made up of multiple components, including our chosen career path, spiritual beliefs, sexual orientation, marital status, personality traits and characteristics, body image, and even where we live and where we are from. Although one’s identity is shaped my a multitude of factors, family and peer influences play a huge roll in an adolescent finding and fine tuning their personal identity.…
Formulating an identity is something everyone goes through. Erik Erikson was a 20th century psychoanalyst who theorised that people go through eight different stages of development that helps determine their own identity (Woolfolk and Perry, 2012). Erikson’s eight different stages of development are 1) Trust versus mistrust, 2) autonomy versus shame and doubt, 3) initiative versus guilt, 4) industry versus inferiority, 5) identity versus role diffusion, 6) intimacy and solidarity versus isolation, 7) generativity versus stagnation, and 8) integrity versus despair. These stages include different conflicts that a person will go through during their lifetime (Woolfolk and Perry, 2012). If a person successfully passes each stage, they will likely not have an identity crisis.…
When I first met Zack, I didn’t think much of him at the time, until one day he initiated a conversation. From the conversation, the way he carried himself and his personality outshines from what I thought based on his appearance. There were hobbies that I could tell were his favorite, based on how he smiled whenever he was talking about them. He told me of his goals and just how he was talking about his goals made me believe that nothing will stop him from achieving his goals. However, Zack Mikat, my first friend I made at Davidson County Community College.…
Writing Sample 2: Identity Prompt My identity has many different things that make it mine. These have made me because the things that make my identity are special and different. Some of which are like my hobbies and personality. These are my main factors of my identity.…
One person that has influenced my life, career and leadership skills would be my mother, LaDawn Lundstrom. My mother is the leading role in my life and I could never thank her enough for her dedication to my life. My mother has raised my brother and I alone and has always shown unconditional love for the both of us. When my mother was 21 when she had my older brother Dante and was completely unaware of the difficult life changes that the future would hold as a single, young mother. My parents were never married but were in a seemingly serious and devoted relationship, but had their ups and downs but ultimately wanted to stay together to have a family.…
Helping a teen’s well-being in a school-setting: A comparative analysis Identity formation is a lifelong developmental process that begins to become crucial during adolescence. Adolescence has been described as a “turbulent stage because of the dramatic physiological changes occurring at this time,” (Crain, 2011, p. 290). Not only are adolescents experiencing bodily changes, but are also trying to find their place in the larger world. According to Erickson, adolescence is the time where individuals begin to develop a new sense of ego identity, which can risk role confusion, moratorium, or identity foreclosure, and may result in consistent feelings of crisis (Crain, 2011). Furthermore, this is a time where an individual may begin to experience…
These are the scraps of my personal statement. It is very unfinished. The world I come from has been a smooth going world. Because I moved at a young age, there were two chapters of how I was raised.…
Where Your Ego Ends For everybody, life is different. Some people aspire to be nuclear physicists and others are content with working minimum wage for the rest of their lives. This is all because of perspective. Being that I was born as a millennial, I will have a different perspective than many baby boomers.…
Asking yourself, “who am I?” , is an easy way to start an identity crisis. At first glance, it seems like an easy question. Some people put their physical aspects, such as being short, pale, or thin. Others may state traits they have or things they have been called, such as intelligent, trustworthy, or funny.…
I stood in the line next to her, watching her play a game on her phone. Behind her my partner nodded at me. I slowly pulled out my gun while he shot the air above him. I grabbed the girl around the waist and put my gun against her head and dragged her back. She dropped her phone and struggled against my hold.…
"The only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work and the only way to do great work is to love what you do". My inspiration, to save others the emotional agony I had to go through, to prevent children from becoming orphans, wives becoming widows and parents losing their future generations. Sitting outside the ER on the cold December night, having lost my father an hour earlier from complications of congestive heart failure, I had to make a choice. I was in 8th grade I remember, age when teens are only beginning to enjoy, but nature had other plans for me. Deep inside me, something changed that day, I became a man with a purpose.…
The choices I made, the way I want to be preserved, the admiration of my parents are all patterns of behavior that I act upon today. Identity is an ongoing process that changes and become stronger with every day. Without these traits, I would not be able to set goals and a promising future for…
“My Teenager Years- Struggling with My Identity and Codependency” (age 13-19) Erik Erikson characterized adolescence as a critical period in forming an identity and proposed that adolescents experience the conflict of identity versus role confusion (Zunker, 2016; Sigelman & Rider, 2015). So, what is an identity and how does it form? Identity refers to who you are and where you fit into society. The search for finding your own identity involves many factors and questions that we all look at in our life.…
Have you ever experienced a life altering event? Where every fiber of your being has been impacted in one way or another. The person you are now would not be recognized by your past self. What if you couldn 't remember any of it, but maybe had handful of memories. Those memories play in your head like a old vintage movie projector.…
After reading from the book and listening to what we talked about in class relating to the concept of one’s identity, I realized that I have not actually deeply thought about my identity. However, now I am able to take the time and realize that even though I have not thought deeply about it my entire life has influenced my identity. Ever since I can remember, one of the most important things in my life has been my family and friends. I have been very lucky because I grew up in a family where I could be myself. Growing up in this type of environment enabled me to be the type of person who is there for others and wants to help others feel that they are important.…