Personal Narrative: What Makes A Leader

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I started off friends will everyone in my grade but the second I left, I was surrounded by acquaintances. It all began when I made it to the impromptu speeches for the next round of public speaking.

The topic I was given to talk about was “What makes a leader?” When I heard the teacher said those words, my heartbeat started to race. I began to sweat profusely and my palms felt clammy. I picked up the pencil and tried to rack my brain for ideas but my hands kept shaking. With only two minutes left to write the speech, I came to a dead end, the blank white sheet of paper seemed to mock me. I cursed under my breath and sighed. I muttered words of encouragement as if it was going to magically give me arguments for this topic.
When the timer signaled that my time was up, I walked to the stage as slowly as I possibly can, barely lifting my hand off of the ground. I tried to buy time so I could try and think of any ideas that would save me from embarrassing myself in
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My jaw dropped as she walked away from me joining the group. She didn’t even say a word when tears started to form . I couldn’t begin to comprehend what just happened. In what universe does your “best friend” talk to you like this? I started to question myself where I went wrong. I knew that that this was the end of our friendship. Although that day was nothing but negative above negative, I got the chance to smile when I realized that one day, karma would come back and ruin her in the same way that she ruined me. I had lost all sense of confidence in myself but in the end, I found myself a group of friends who didn’t find my weaknesses as a flaw. In all honesty, I am glad I lost a friend because then I wouldn’t have been able to meet new people who wouldn't turn their backs on

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