Personal Narrative: Understanding My Identity

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Understanding my own identity has moulded me into the self-made man that I am today. It was the last day of Grade Ten when my advisory teacher, Bro. Gattone, asked what I wanted to be in the future. I felt uneasy because he believed that I was a bright individual with long-term goals. Unfortunately, my average day outside of school consisted of playing video games and watching Netflix, which did not reflect how he and others perceived me in school. Through deep reflection, I recognized that the majority of my time on earth was being wasted because I had no purpose in life. The pivotal moment came in improving my identity when I took out video games, Netflix, and social media completely. I realized that what became important to me was showing

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