In fact, saying goodbye was more of a monthly routine. Most of the times he left I do not remember. I remember being filled with sadness when he left, loneliness when he was away, and happiness when he returned, but there is one trip that I remember a little better.
I was going to be turning three soon and I knew that once I turned three I would have to stop sucking my thumb. I was quite the Daddy’s girl when I was younger. At the drop of a hat I would do anything for him. I wanted to surprise him and make him proud of me. The perfect chance came when my dad had to go to Europe for a week.
A man in a black car came to pick up my dad and drive him to the airport. The man was tall, yet ample in size. The driver came inside our house to use the bathroom before the journey ahead. We all took our turns saying farewell to our father. Once all of the crying and hugging was over and my dad had left for the airport, I made an oath; “By the time daddy returns, my thumb will have broken up with my mouth,” I proudly exclaimed to my mom.
The week was a struggle. I felt that the most common word told to me was “thumb” in a stern voice followed by my