Have you ever stopped caring so much that whatever happens, happens? I remember the time I had gotten in trouble by my mom because I had walked home from school. It was a gloomy day from it being so cloudy and cold. I was talked into walking home during school by friends whom, at the time didn't care about school as much as I did, cared nothing of school. I didn’t like it, but then again I started not to care either.…
It was about 3:45 in the morning on a Sunday, where I found myself and my excited, wide-awake, good-looking boyfriend driving down a dark, eerie road to a hospital that was 61 miles away. Those 61 miles felt like light years to me I didn’t feel right all day today, I had a feeling deep down that my body was telling me that it was time. I was as nervous as I possibly could be, however, I had to remain completely calm because I could possibly be in labor and our first baby could arrive any time. So There I was, just Sitting there in that fast moving car, patiently waiting for the top of my big-ole belly to become super tight, tighter than a rubber band wrapped around your stomach 1000 times.…
Growing up I’ve had a lot of memorable days. Some more important than others. The day I can honestly say was the most unforgettable, had to be when I became a father. I had my up's and down's when it came to parenting, but it all was worth it at the end of the day. I feel as if my kids changed my life for the better and I thank god for that.…
It’s very strange how one experience or choice you make in your life can change the rest of your life that follows that event, would you then in turn change these decisions you made. Such as your what if your mom conceived you not on the knowing basis. What if everyone was telling her not to because she was to be a single mom and that’s not a world a child should be born into, but then what if she challenged this belief that she grew up with. This then in turn affected all her choices later in life, but then vice versa what if she didn't challenge this belief and stuck with what she knew. This may be of the more extreme choices in life that some people must make but we all have that certain time in our life that comes where we must break away and make…
Everyone knows the YMCA song, but everyone doesn’t have the same connection to it that I do. This building never contained one life changing event for me, but it has been a pivotal place in my life. A place I’ve referred to as home many times, the YMCA has shaped who I am as a man. This pivotal spot is where I suffered my first traumatic injury, changing how I do things for the rest of my life; but also was the place I went to when coping with family incidents. This institution, in particular the basketball gym, helped me find myself, changing my life forever.…
My baby Carolina’s birth changed my life. Everything began on November 2, 2016 when the doctor told me I was positive for induction and he sent me to Hialeah Hospital to induct me because it was my last week of pregnancy and my baby Carolina had not been born yet. Besides, she would be my first baby and she would come overweight. After, I arrived to the hospital and the front desk lady told me there were no available rooms in the whole maternity area at that time. Therefore, I had to wait almost seven hours for a room to be vacated.…
I still cannot believe my baby turned 5 months old this month! Time is flying by and I don't like it. We decided since Zander wasn't going to quiet understand this year, we weren't going to go buy a ton of stuff!…
Spring of 2013 was the year were my life changed for the best. That year was when I visited the motherland of my parents. The trip to Mexico wasn't just a week vacation it was more of an eye opener and a learning experience. It the first time I left the country and went out to explore on my own. The little vacation was mainly to meet family members that I had never met and to see where my parents grew up.…
When I was a child,I had a friend called Dave. Dave and I went to middle school together and we were best friends. I recall spending days with him without feeling bored or dissatisfied. He was a great student and I had always idealized him In addition to that ,he was a remarkable athlete and his life revolved around sports and education.…
“A handful of moments I wished I could change, but I was carried away,” are the lyrics that remind a lot about myself. Growing up, and even about two years ago, I was insanely shy and did not talk much around people, friends, or family. The way I talked to people was in a timid, soft spoken way, which looking back, was awfully embarrassing. My friends and family would laugh at me because I could not talk well, and when I did talk, they acted as if I were a baby who just said its first words. With all of that nonsense going on, their idiotic response kind of made me not want to say anything anymore.…
There’s something to be said for adopting an “older child.” They come to you with a distinct history - a personality already formed in a life before they knew you. The journey is different than when the adoption is that of a newborn baby. Consider these Tips from Adoptive Parents of Older Children: “What I Wish I Had Known Before the Adoption” It’s okay to need help.…
I couldn’t wait till my weekend came until I got my baby. I was so excited to see how it would go. Friday came and Mrs. Brimmer was getting me set up to take the baby. Once I had it I sent my mom a picture. She texted me back saying, “I’m going to be a grandmother this weekend.”…
I would never be the same person, never. I met someone, I hadn't met him in years and I never knew he could make a difference in my life. This man changed the way I thought, acted and dressed. Muhammad Zafar Iqbal, otherwise known as my grandfather, or as we call him, Daddy. Everyone wonders why we call him Daddy, but I don't have an accurate answer.…
I remember this quote my Dad used to tell me when I was younger. He said, ‘’The strongest man in the world is he who stands most alone “- Henrik Ibsen. At that time in life, I didn’t understand what the quote actually means until a few years later. The day my father and mother died when I was four years old changed my life forever.…
Six weeks. The longest and shortest amount of time in the world. Six weeks, was all it took for me to find a new home and a new family. A family that I was ungraciously ripped away from at the end of those six weeks.…