Personal Narrative: The Acceptance Of Cheereers

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“Both her preschool and kindergarten teacher reported that Kaytin was socially adept and often too concerned with the activity of others. Because of being so socially in tune, Kaytin resisted utilizing recommended devices, such as a special seat cushion, out of fear of appearing different.” The desire of the acceptance of peers is extremely common for everyone, especially adolescents, and I am not an exception of this. Consequently, since the age of five, I have been changing aspects of what I do in my life so that I would seem similar to everyone else. Evidently, high school was no different, as I finally feel accepted as a cheerleader, I fear that breaking what is expected could ruin that for me. Even high school musical says that if you

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