Personal Narrative: Social Anxiety

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I love going out to learn new things and meet new people, but I've always had this problem called, "social anxiety." Social anxiety is "a persistent fear of social or performance situations." The simplest things like saying starting a conversation with someone at a social gather or asking a waiter for extra ketchup has always seemed so difficult. I was constantly shielding myself from change and new people. My family have always used the excuse “she’s just shy.” In truth, I really am not shy. I am the most extroverted person you will ever meet!

Recently, I have challenged my fear and I am continuously getting better. I've started to put myself out of my comfort zone which has resulted both positively and negatively. I have learned that if

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