It would require a great deal of practice and patience, but I believe I could accomplish the state of mind and emotion referred to as "radical forgiveness".
For many years I responded to situations as a victim, believing I wasn't good enough or blaming others for my choices. As an adult, I try to assume responsibility but old habits die hard and it is a struggle at times to push the victim away. When I consciously choose to not be a victim it is empowering. I am confident and in control of the situation at hand. If I believe nothing anyone "does to me" affects me, I no longer have the desire to be the victim. It would provide the confidence to make choices based on my own beliefs and desires, without the influence of others.
For many years I responded to situations as a victim, believing I wasn't good enough or blaming others for my choices. As an adult, I try to assume responsibility but old habits die hard and it is a struggle at times to push the victim away. When I consciously choose to not be a victim it is empowering. I am confident and in control of the situation at hand. If I believe nothing anyone "does to me" affects me, I no longer have the desire to be the victim. It would provide the confidence to make choices based on my own beliefs and desires, without the influence of others.