Polarized thinking is conceiving of thinking as absolute opposites such as good or bad, right or wrong, or male or female. As this vocabulary indicates, some words separated people for gender by how the person call his/herself. In English, there are Mr. or Mrs. to show the person’s gender. In my language, Japanese, has a lot of words which separates people’s gender. One day in my elementary school life, one of my girl classmate suddenly stated to call herself with a pronoun which indicated only and totally for boys. I do not know the reason why she started it, but I was shocked and I felt special about it. I, then, realized that there must be no rule how people call themselves. But at the same time, I felt awkward that my girl friend call herself
