Personal Narrative: My Son's Death

Improved Essays
Lately, many people have come and consoled me over the death of my son, Daniel. They praise him and act like he died an honorable death. My son, however, died from alcohol poisoning something I never expected would happen. I don’t think anyone would believe their child would die from an addictive liquid.

Standing in front of Daniel to give my final farewell is hard, but I will try to continue for him and for others like my son. Daniel was the best kid I could have asked for. He was always smiling, as happy as a child could be. He was kind, helpful, and you could never be upset with him. These are probably many of the reasons you are here with me today.

My son had just started his junior year in college and was achieving plenty more than I did in my years of college. He was the president of two academic clubs and was already offered a position at his internship job. I knew he would be exposed to alcohol in college, but I had no worry over this situation allowing him to be responsible and independent.
…show more content…
I was aware of society’s glamorization of partying with alcohol in college, but I never thought our Daniel would fall victim to it. As a mother, I never lectured or advised him on what to do and what not to do with the privilege of drinking alcohol. I never taught him to watch his intake of an alcoholic beverage. I never told him the risks that come with alcohol. I was never there to teach him how to be responsible in a partying environment all because of the illegal ability of consuming alcohol at 18. Now I notice all the judgement I could get for not talking about these issues with my son and I know I will partially blame myself for his death, but he was a wonderful kid and I didn’t feel the need to lecture him over such trivial

Related Documents

  • Superior Essays

    In 1984 the Minimum Drinking Age Act, also known as MDLA 21, was signed by Ronald Reagan requiring all states to establish a minimum drinking age of 21. The goal of this bill was to reduce the number of drunk driving incidents. Initially traffic fatalities did decline, but those under 21 still continued to drink. This created an “underground” drinking scene where risky and irresponsible decisions occurred that lead to a whole new set of problems. I’m interested in this subject because of the prevalence of underage drinking I am surrounded by in college and how those who choose not to drink are still affected by alcohol.…

    • 1622 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Great Essays

    For the past 32 years in the United States, the minimum legal drinking age has been twenty-one years old; the drinking age in the United States should be lowered in order to protect those it prohibits. In comparison to other countries around the world, our country has the highest minimum legal age to date. According to the American Public Health Association, this topic is the most popularly studied alcohol-control policy (Nelson). Many discussions have came to pass over the years, with people debating on whether or not this age is too high; often times people argue that the age of 18 is the age of adulthood. When you turn 18 it can be seen as a rite of passage, at this age you can enlist in the army and serve for our country, and additionally…

    • 1476 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Was one of your family members affected by drugs or alcohol at a young age? I know mine have. People all over the world are affected or dying from alcohol the most killing drug out there. People seem to think of this drug as a normal thing now and it's harmless which is completely incorrect. Certain people seem to believe the opposite of this and think it should be raised.…

    • 499 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    Maybe you like to enjoy a glass of wine at dinner, or have a family member who is an alcoholic or you might even know someone who was involved in a drinking related accident. Whatever it may be, chances are you have seen the effects of alcohol or have been affected yourself in either a positive or a negative way. This leads people to form opinions about alcohol and how it should be regulated in America. One of the central debates surrounding alcohol is what the legal drinking age should be in the United States. In order to debate what should be done about the legal drinking age, it is important to agree upon the facts and definition of the issue first, and how different stakeholders are affected.…

    • 1715 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The problem today with teens is rebellion, but the most relevant one is underage drinking. In 2010, the article, The Problem of Underage Drinking and What Parents Can Do by Heidi Stevens “ there were approximately 189,000 emergency room visits by persons under age 21 for injuries and other conditions linked to alcohol” (Steven 3). Alcohol is an international issue among the globe. The reports of alcoholism have slowly decreased, but it is still pretty high for teenagers. In the article, The Problem of Underage Drinking and What Parents Can Do, by Heidi Stevens,” About 22.8 percent of adolescents report drinking by 8th grade, and about 46.3 percent report being drunk at least once by 12th grade” (Steven 3).…

    • 675 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Alcohol awareness programs in schools across America are ineffective in delaying the deaths of 1,800 students every year due to alcohol-related causes. An additional 600,000 are injured while drunk(Hingson). The government needs to approve a bill for a budget that will not only provide free education ,under any circumstances, but improve the quality of the information that alcohol awareness programs are passing on to all students. Through these procedures the movement of drinking alcohol isolated from the outside world will shift, specifically from college dorms, to bars and other public places with better security. An estimated 6.6 million children under 18 live in households with at least one alcoholic parent(FAS).Education on proper alcohol management should not be limited to just students but also their guardians , the first teachers of any child.…

    • 1099 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Underage Drinking Under 21

    • 1734 Words
    • 7 Pages

    In today’s world underage drinking is not an issue taken lightly by most people. It is a serious issue. No matter what you might think the actual drinking age should be, the fact of the matter is that you cannot drink alcohol if you are under twenty one. This is something that I obviously did not take very serious. The outcome of my choice wasn’t the end of the world, but I think it definitely changed the way I look at drinking underage.…

    • 1734 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    With college comes new friends, new environments, and new experiences. However, these new territories encourage students to engage in harmful and underage drinking, which impacts the academic and social lives of students on campuses across the United States. Before entering college, many students have already established drinking habits, but the college environment can worsen the problem. According to a national survey, approximately 60 percent of college students ages 18-22 drank alcohol in the past month, and almost 2 out of 3 engaged in binge drinking.…

    • 228 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    In my opinion, I have grieved my Pa's death to completion. Do not misunderstand me, some days I experience sadness thinking about him; but it is brief. At this point in my life the pain, hurt, disbelief and all other symptoms associated with his passing are now committed to remembering him and keeping his legacy alive. This entails sharing stories about him with my children. Also, participating in family gatherings where we talk about Pa.…

    • 367 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Decent Essays

    High School kids are going to drink whether you like it or not. Statistics say that up to eighty-one percent of high school kids consume alcohol at one point in their high school career, according to the U.S Department of Justice. Consumption of alcohol through minors with a parent's consent should be legalized in the United States. I believe learning how to drink responsibly should be taught at a young age, for example; college, you always hear about how much fun people have and about all the ragers friends and family attend or attended when they were in college. They go off the deep end right after they get out of high school, that’s because they always had to sneak around their parents to drink but at college you don’t have your parents looking after you.…

    • 335 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Superior Essays

    If a teen is told not to do something, they feel that their freedom is being taken away. “One in six teens binge drinks, yet only one in 100 parents believe his or her teen binge drinks.” “Car crashes are the leading cause of death for teens, and about a quarter of those crashes involved an underage drinking driver” ("Underage Drinking Statistics"). These are a small number of the damages that can be caused by underage drinking. There are many examples of how teenage alcohol abuse leads to lower success rates in school.…

    • 1325 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Adolescent Alcohol Abuse

    • 960 Words
    • 4 Pages

    Adolescent Abuse of Alcohol The purpose of this assignment is to explore a social issue or health problem that impacts nursing care of the middle or high school age pediatric population. This paper’s topic is the use and abuse of alcohol in adolescents of high school age. Experimentation with alcohol is beginning at a younger age, and the number of those abusing it is increasing. This is considered an issue, due to an adolescent’s brain still developing, and the choices they make at this age have lasting consequences on their future that they are unable to comprehend.…

    • 960 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Alcohol is known as the most-used substance of abuse for young adults. According to the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, around 5,000 young adults die from drinking, before turning 21. In most cases, when a teenager drinks before reaching the age limit of 21, parents believe that their child is badly behaved. However, that’s not always the case.…

    • 600 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Underage drinking is a serious problem and should be addressed due to its effects on the developmental…

    • 1295 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    At least three out of every one hundred deaths in the United States are alcohol-related (1). Families should advocate for mandatory programs at schools, especially for colleges to implement alcohol educational programs. Alcohol drinking is a growing problem in United States schools. “As many as half of our kids are doing this (4).”…

    • 1649 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Superior Essays