Personal Narrative: My Role Confusion

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However, although I experienced many positive outcomes, I also experienced Role Confusion which, lead to a different experience. “If adults limit and control the exploration process, are unwilling to provide new possibilities to try, and for adolescents into premature commitment. The adolescents either foreclose on an identity (without) exploring options or postpone the exploration and commitment process (moratorium)” (Pacific Oaks College. W4 Adolescence. Identity.pptx Power Point). During middle of adolescent period, I grew up watching my father with alcohol addiction and unstable relationship with his now ex-wife. Due to those experiences, I became distant with my family. I recall coming home from school locking myself up in my room. I

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