Personal Narrative: My Life In Broken Arrow

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Change can be difficult for someone my age, or any age really. At the beginning of the school year, I moved from Bentonville, Arkansas, to Broken Arrow, Oklahoma, which came with all sorts of changes. Some of the challenges I faced included making new friends, adjusting to my new life in Broken Arrow, and finding my way and where I belong in a new place. Unfortunately, when I moved I realized how difficult making friends was, especially since I did not know a single person at Broken Arrow. For example, I was very nervous when I walked into school on the first day, I just stood in the main building by myself with groups of people all standing around me and I felt almost helpless knowing that I was unknown by everyone. I also found lunch nerve …show more content…
When I first moved here, I had a hard time explaining where I needed to go or where I lived and it was honestly so frustrating. I hated that I could barely explain something so simple and at times I would mess up, it embarrassed me but I also felt bad about it. I now can explain most things, but I still have some things to learn about this city. I did not realize how different the requirements needed to graduate were here until I met with a counselor and realized I still had to take two history classes sometime during high school if I want to graduate. Also, I have to make up a big end of year test for Algebra I since at my old school, we did not take the same required tests as they do in Oklahoma. There are a few things I still need to do or classes and tests I need to take but I am taking everything one step at a time and I will surely finish everything that I …show more content…
I have never known who I am as a person, I know the obvious things yet I haven’t found myself emotionally or mentally. I have yet to find people who fully understand me, but I do believe that I am getting there. Moving helped me a lot in a way when I spent most of my time alone with only myself and my thoughts. I have also found my way and connected through music recently, I have listened to new music that I would not have thought I would ever listen to a year ago. Music has led me in a direction to help me realize what kind of person I am, who I aspire to be, and has helped me conquer my fears. It is never easy to move away from friends, school, everything. It is not impossible, but it will get better and I feel like I have done a pretty good job. There will be hardships along the way, if it is making new friends, adjusting to a new life, or finding happiness and feeling accepted, but there is a way to get through it. Change is never effortless, it takes time and patience to transform into the person destined to

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