Personal Narrative: My Identity Foreclosure

Using Marcia’s identity states, I would put myself in the identity foreclosure. This states that the identity if foreclosed until the individual picks where they want to be in their life. I picked this one because of a few reasons. One, I’ve always been a bit of a go with the flow person. I figure out what it is I want to do for the time being and then when I’m ready for find something more for find something else it is that I’m interested in I go for it. Also when it comes to this I’ve been put in positions my whole life because of the cards that I have been dealt. When it came to picking where I wanted to go for college I was put in a sticky situation with wanting/needing to stay home to help out my family and deciding to pack up and move and in a sense not helping them out. Needless to say, I stayed home to help out my family and I think it was one of the best …show more content…
I know I wanted to get into business and get into the management side of it all but other than that I’m still working out the kinks. I just recently became a first time renter of a townhouse and I’m living on my own for the first time ever. Therefore, my responsibilities are more than what they were before when I lived at home. That pan that I used for dinner will not clean itself and it becomes obvious, even though I like to keep my place clean, sometimes those dang dishes seem to find a way to stack themselves. My goals that I have for myself is to figure out what exactly my nitch is, what exactly I want to do for the rest of my life. I work at a bar, tend to tables and serve behind that bar as well. I do know that I don’t want to do this for the rest of my life so at least I have one thing figured out! Some challenges that I’m facing right now is internships. I’m looking into a few and I’m still trying to figure out which one would be a best fit for me at this