Personal Narrative: My Family Of Origin

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My family of origin was comprised of my parents, myself, and my younger brother. David was born three years after me, and we filled the functional roles of “oldest child” and “youngest child” perfectly. As described by McGoldrick, Gerson, & Petry (2008), “oldest children are likely to be the over responsible and conscientious ones in the family” (p.126). I was always expected to perform academically and conduct myself with high moral standards. I did as was expected, and I do not remember ever questioning the situation. On the other hand, David was a “typical youngest sibling” described as, “more carefree and content to have fun rather than achieve. Less plagued with self-doubt that their older brothers and sisters, they are often extremely

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