Before my arrival at Claflin University, I was unsure of my readiness for college due to the fact that I was underage and I never left the comfort of my own home. Therefore, my first couple of weeks in college were extremely difficult because I did not know how to handle stress well. Stress was my biggest enemy and I allowed myself to become overwhelmed by extracurricular activities and class assignments. However, before the end of my first semester, I discovered the root of all my troubles. It was evident that all of my problems stemmed from a poor social life, a negative attitude, and an unforgiving past. Thus, I decided that I needed to resolve all of my personal issues before I could become successful at Claflin University. During the
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My attitude hindered my personal growth because I was extremely negative in regards to my relationship with others. Also, I never paid attention to the words that I spoke into the atmosphere nor did I realize that words were powerful. Throughout my first semester at Claflin University, I constantly underestimated myself and allowed negativity to come through my ears. It took me a while to understand the effects of my attitudes, but I finally discovered the error of my ways. Hence, I promised myself that I would never allow words to define me nor would I allow myself to bring negativity to any situation. As a result of my changed mindset, my new semester has been running smoothly and I have not encountered any problems with my classes.
One of the greatest lessons I learned during my first semester was the power of forgiveness. Although I do not practice bitterness towards anyone, I realized that I was unforgiving towards myself. As a young woman, I am bound to make mistakes in life, but sometimes I am extremely hard on myself and it’s difficult for me to look beyond my faults. However, after I learned how to forgive myself for making mistakes in life, I was able to move forward and focus on my goals. Today, I feel liberated because I do not have to carry the burdens of my past due to the fact that I am a changed
My attitude hindered my personal growth because I was extremely negative in regards to my relationship with others. Also, I never paid attention to the words that I spoke into the atmosphere nor did I realize that words were powerful. Throughout my first semester at Claflin University, I constantly underestimated myself and allowed negativity to come through my ears. It took me a while to understand the effects of my attitudes, but I finally discovered the error of my ways. Hence, I promised myself that I would never allow words to define me nor would I allow myself to bring negativity to any situation. As a result of my changed mindset, my new semester has been running smoothly and I have not encountered any problems with my classes.
One of the greatest lessons I learned during my first semester was the power of forgiveness. Although I do not practice bitterness towards anyone, I realized that I was unforgiving towards myself. As a young woman, I am bound to make mistakes in life, but sometimes I am extremely hard on myself and it’s difficult for me to look beyond my faults. However, after I learned how to forgive myself for making mistakes in life, I was able to move forward and focus on my goals. Today, I feel liberated because I do not have to carry the burdens of my past due to the fact that I am a changed