Personal Narrative: My Declaration Of Independence

Monday, August 22nd, 2016, approximately 10 o’clock PM. I arrived home after a typical summer night out with my friends at the local Applebee’s, however I was greeted at the door by my already enraged father. Before I had time to take my shoes off of my feet, my father was already ridiculing me, spouting phrases such as “you’re so irresponsible” and “you cannot be trusted with anything.” Now of course there was some foul language included sporadically in those remarks, but overall I was shocked at why I was being attacked seemingly unprovoked. My father then decided to inform me that tomorrow at 8 AM I had to report to the soccer fields at Holy Ghost Preparatory School for soccer tryouts. My father had set out strict regulations for when I was to be in bed during tryouts, and at this point it was evident I disobeyed his wishes. At this point in the night I was fed up with my father and stormed up to my bedroom to avoid any further confrontation. …show more content…
Soccer was something I invested 11 years of my life into, and quitting abruptly put my parents into a frenzy. To my parents this was just another stupid decision, but to me it was the start of my independence. From this day on I began to make choices because I personally wanted to. I stopped caring what my parents thought of me and promised myself to do more for myself. I began excelling in school, not because of the pressure my parents put on me to succeed, but because I knew I could do better if I applied myself. Being presented with the realization that I am in control of my own life is what truly allowed me to change how I carried myself. Yes, I still love my parents and have not become traitorous towards them, but I believe that becoming independent before entering college is beneficial. My parents and I have talked about my newfound motivation, and they fully support my belief in being more