A time when I resisted accepting reality and kept focusing on my unattainable desire was when my sister decided to move to D.C. The news that my sister decided to move baffled me because I always thought I would be the first to move away. Before my sister moved away I was in denial. Even though my sister planned to move away my mind kept focusing on ways to keep her to stay. I kept attempting to keep my sister in Michigan by showing her places she would miss if she left. Throughout the process of attempting to change my sister’s mind about the move it affected me immensely. I felt overwhelmed juggling school, work, death of a close friend and the situation with my sister. The whole process with my sister's decision to move to D.C. lead me to
