A few transformations and developments about me over summer or maybe even the last time I thought about how much I have changed. One social transformation I went through would be a change of views on how I see the world, second would be my interest and hobbies, doing and liking things that I wouldn’t particularly thought I would even like or do. Lastly one thing that hasn’t really changed would be the love I have for my dearest mother.…
The things about challenges are overcoming them, and telling your friends and family about what you faced, in my case the challenge I faced changed the way I think about beautiful things, and about my life. How can something so beautiful be so treacherous? I was so happy enjoying my day, but within seconds…pure joy turned into fear. It was a beautiful day spent at schliterbahn, but hours being in the same placed bored me. I asked my brother for permission to go to the island, since it meant just crossing the bridge and there it was.…
Moving Again Have you ever moved schools? Have you lost friends? Well it really stinks. Moving schools have affected me for lots of reasons, but I am getting better.…
I could see myself getting stronger and better. When my coach called me in to his office to talk after a 3 hour Saturday practice, he articulated to me that I would barely play this season. My hard work would acquire me 20 minutes of playing time for the entire year. I was confused as to why I received no playing time. At one point I wanted to quit and never pick up a basketball.…
I went through Tee-ball, to coach pitch, to modified kid pitch, and then finally to kid pitch. Fast forward to 9th grade and eligibility to play high school baseball is here and it was a whole semester trial of showing the coaches my skills. Skip ahead to late November, early December and the whole “do you think you did enough” chat starts going around and at this point I still think “I’ve got this 110%, no doubt in my mind.” I’m thinking about all the notable things I did and I could remember a lot of good things I did, and not absolutely terribly bad things I did, Although, I’m sure I had the occasional error every once in awhile. Cuts would be made in a few weeks and I was not prepared for what would be said to…
During the three nights of tryouts, I was always the first one to finish the sprints, I hustled on every play, and left everything I had on the court. Confident in the way I played, I checked the results when they came out–I had been cut for the second year in a row. My heart dropped and millions of thoughts ran through my mind–I should stop playing basketball, I wasted all my time on something useless, hard work does not pay off. After pondering on these thoughts for several days, I decided to rededicate myself to the sport; I found a more competitive AAU team to play for, IYB Basketball and Wayne PAL Wolfpack, and found myself a trainer. Everyday after finishing my schoolwork, I either went to the gym to lift and play basketball or went to an AAU practice or game.…
Okay, that was really weird and I don't understand anything. We were waiting to talk to you, my mother wanted to apologize for having moved away, she was not feeling well, it was too hot in the middle of all those people. We were talking about calling you into a cafe when we turned you were leaving the room with a couple. As I said understand anything.…
He knew how upset I was about the previous day’s results, but he as well would not accept my thoughts of resignation from the team. After many words of encouragement he added, “No matter how fast you run, it’s going to hurt, so tune out the pain. Prove that you can do it, that you’re not scared.” All of a sudden, a fire inside of me wanted to do better, needed to do better, so I listened to his words. I decided to set a goals for myself.…
Everyone knows the YMCA song, but everyone doesn’t have the same connection to it that I do. This building never contained one life changing event for me, but it has been a pivotal place in my life. A place I’ve referred to as home many times, the YMCA has shaped who I am as a man. This pivotal spot is where I suffered my first traumatic injury, changing how I do things for the rest of my life; but also was the place I went to when coping with family incidents. This institution, in particular the basketball gym, helped me find myself, changing my life forever.…
The season went by and just like that we were back in the off-season. I had lost my interest in basketball during this time as I had gotten a job and had a gotten the taste of money. As Junior year had started I had not been at practice for basketball for so long. As we got closer and closer to try outs I felt like I was obligated to go out there and try out. Then again, I didn't want to be like those new faces who showed up during that day and had not put in the work weeks ahead.…
Next, things change over time. Regardless of your situation, things do not stay the same. We may feel very bad today, but it won't last forever. Problem is all part and parcel of our life. Everything will change and back to normal again and we can live as always.…
There are a couple of obstacles that have played a major role in me becoming who I am today. I've had naysayers trying to negatively influence my thoughts, and crush my dreams by saying that said I will never amount to anything, or that I should give up on my dreams and get realistic with my goals. A couple years ago I was a completely different person. I was out of shape physically, my academic performance was very poor, and I had a terrible attitude. I improved greatly in athletics and my academic career.…
I was not surprised—I knew the basic principles of exercise—but my knowledge had not prevented me from feeling like I was barely improving during those practices. The season finally began that fall, and I was disappointed to hear that I had not been chosen as a starter for the team. All hope was not lost, however, because the coach told the backup players that if we improved, we could be made starters. The season went on and I kept improving and finally, we made it to the state championships. After substituting in the end of the semi-finals, my coach pulled me aside and told me that I would be starting as middle linebacker for the final championship game.…
There is a time in your life when you come to the realization that you are not pleased with the person you are, or feel yourself turning into. To me it happened very early in my life. At the age of 15 I decided to reinvent myself. Deciding to change was something that was easier said than done,but it was the best decision I have ever made. I have always been overweight ever since I was young.…
I still had aspirations of playing at a higher level, but my confidence was completely shaken when I did not make varsity basketball as a freshman. There were four freshman who had been invited to play fall ball with the varsity team from the year before and I was the only one who did not make varsity. I was pulled aside by the coach who told me he just felt I needed a little bit more time to develop. I was furious and I wanted to prove him wrong. After the first scrimmage of the season about a week after I learned I was on JV, the coach called me to the front of the bus on the way home and told me that I would now be practicing with varsity on Sunday’s as well as Saturday’s with the JV team.…