It was 5:15 in the morning, and my mother had just finished giving birth to a healthy, 7 pound, baby girl—me. After I was born, my mother had to fend me off from dozens of nurses, who all wanted to hold me and take a look at me. My mother said that I was the chubbiest and cutest baby she had ever seen. My father and mother both cried tears of joy right after I was born. Apparently, I was the only girl to have been born in that hospital that whole night/morning.…
My baby Carolina’s birth changed my life. Everything began on November 2, 2016 when the doctor told me I was positive for induction and he sent me to Hialeah Hospital to induct me because it was my last week of pregnancy and my baby Carolina had not been born yet. Besides, she would be my first baby and she would come overweight. After, I arrived to the hospital and the front desk lady told me there were no available rooms in the whole maternity area at that time. Therefore, I had to wait almost seven hours for a room to be vacated.…
Spring of 2013 was the year were my life changed for the best. That year was when I visited the motherland of my parents. The trip to Mexico wasn't just a week vacation it was more of an eye opener and a learning experience. It the first time I left the country and went out to explore on my own. The little vacation was mainly to meet family members that I had never met and to see where my parents grew up.…
Two years ago I was a completely different person. That may sound like a complete exaggeration, but looking back on the person who carried my name two years ago, it is shockingly true. Two years ago, I was the quiet, overweight, anxious girl who avoided social interaction as if it was the plague. Needless to say, I was not the most confident or outgoing person out there. I let my anxiety disorder rule my life, and let my weight be an excuse as to why I couldn’t do certain things.…
A lot of times when someone finds out I have been adopted they apologize, as if they had anything to do with it or that being adopted is such a terrible thing. I was adopted from a family that could not take care of me so I was very thankful for the second chance I was given. Adoption is the act of taking something on as your own and in my case it refers to the legal process of becoming a non-biological parent. Adopting a child is not an easy process and it takes a while to complete. Since my adoption, my life has been drastically different and the changes that overcame my life still affect me to this day.…
Becoming A Mother When I found out I was going to be a mother, I had so many emotions running through me. I was happy, scared and very nervouse. I had no idea what to expect the next nine months. What I did know was I had a lot todo and a lot to perpare for.…
Being a mother is the greatest job in the world. It is also one of the hardest. Especially when having 3 girls. We lived in a small city called Hammond. April 22, 2013 was the date I have been waiting for 40 agonizing weeks.…
"You will remain in foster care until the age of 18 or until your mother can give up drugs." Those are the words that made me realize that my life had taken a change for the worse. I was nine years old when my siblings and I were placed into foster care. We had been to three different homes in the course of four days and somehow I knew this would be the deciding factor that would differentiate me from "normal ' kids with "normal" lives.…
The nurse finally speaks to me and says, “don’t push we are going to have to do a C-section.” My legs were strapped down to the bed, my arms were strapped down, and something told me this was not going to be good. With everything I had I pushed as hard as I could and my first baby was born in the amniotic sack on my thighs, with his twin following right behind. Breach and all my body new what needed to happen. The doctor never said a word to me and he left the room shortly after.…
I became a Walt Disney World cast member and began my dream. Feeling like I was right where I needed to be in that moment in time, so close I could taste my dreams right in front of me. And then one day, my world stopped. In an instance, I was on a flight home and preparing myself for my new title. ‘Mommy.’…
I would never be the same person, never. I met someone, I hadn't met him in years and I never knew he could make a difference in my life. This man changed the way I thought, acted and dressed. Muhammad Zafar Iqbal, otherwise known as my grandfather, or as we call him, Daddy. Everyone wonders why we call him Daddy, but I don't have an accurate answer.…
I awoke to the sound of the baby monitor crackling with a voice comforting my first born child. As I adjusted to a new position, my arm brushed against my wife, lying next to me. I lurched out of my bed, threw open the door and ran down the hall. I swung the door open and almost cried out of fear, shock, and utter disgust. The figure could almost be considered human under the right conditions.…
Walking out of the OB/GYN clinic, my head was swarming with questions. The doctor just recommended I terminate my pregnancy because I was at risk of uterine rupture. At 33 years old, I was pregnant for the third time. Making difficult decisions was not foreign to me. My first pregnancy was a long, difficult one, and here I was faced with another one.…
An experience that changed my life was on May 19th, 2014, my brother’s death. It changed my life in a positive and negative way. You would think that death would devastate someone for the rest of their life, but my brother’s death actually changed my life. I’m not saying that his death didn’t have a negative effect on me, but it had more of a positive effect on me than anything. His death made me an introvert, think for myself, and see things differently.…
The birth of a baby is nothing short of a miracle. Holding your newborn baby in your arms for the first time is an indescribable feeling. An array of mix emotions pulses through you. For me, it was a true feeling of ecstasy, a feeling I have never felt until the moment I held my daughter for the first time, a feeling I would never feel again until I delivered my other two children.…