One of my biggest goals was to break my shell. Shyness had prohibited me from diverse experiences and making friends in high school, and I didn’t want it to stop me in college. I knew it wouldn’t be easy, but where there’s a will, there’s a way. Before my first semester started, I read books on body language, small talk, humor, and self-confidence. When my friends and I went hiking, to the mall, or to parties, I made myself talk to people I didn’t know. I started by saying hi and proceeded to have engaging conversations with random people. Not only did I refine my people skills, I learned about the world around me. Each person I talked to had unique perspectives and experiences that I could absorb.
Breaking my shell wasn’t my only goal, I wanted to grow as a person. In my free time I used Duolingo, Pimsleur, and Google to learn Spanish. I eventually became proficient enough to translate for my dad’s Hispanic patients in his medical clinic back home. When I wasn’t translating, I learned about the business. From hiring employees to logistical issues like medical supplies, I saw how my dad approached decisions. The decisions he made affected everybody who worked there. He was an effective leader and it showed; the nurses, secretary, and my dad had a common goal and they all knew their role in achieving