Personal Narrative: How A Teen Mom Changed My Life

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I didn’t come from a wealthy family, but I grew up with a mentality that I did. My parents gave me everything I wanted, from the newest iPhone, to a car by sophomore year. I thought I had everything, I acted like I had everything, but I didn’t know the reality from where everything was coming from. My parents didn’t have an education, they didn’t even graduate high school, they weren’t even together but I did know that they were both waking up at 3:00am and getting home till 8:00 PM. I also knew they were never at my performances or my award shows, but my grandma was somehow always there. Dropping me off at school, making sure my lunch was packed, and that I had way back Home after school. I don’t blame my parents tho, especially not my mom, …show more content…
I have had issues getting financial aid to pay for some of my classes, because I have failed them more than once. It is hard to have obstacles in my path, but they aren’t nothing compared to what I have already gone thru. I have always been a statics, first by becoming a teen mom just like mother, second for having my second child not even a 2 years after my first child, and I even dropped out of college before. But I have learned that it’s never too late, and everything happens for a reason. I need my education for my children, so they can follow my path and finish school. Also, so they don’t have to worry about how they are going to pay for college, and can solely focus on just school. So I can be the first born to finish college, all while raising my kids. One thing that hasn’t changed since the first time I went to college, is I still want to make my family proud. Not only my immediate family, but my little family as well (my fiancée, son & daughter). Being in a defend city, with no physical or financial help is hard. I’m out here trying to finish my education on my own, with my mistakes hunting me, but I can’t stop working toward my goals. I don’t only need this for myself now like the first time around, but for my own family, my very small family who kept me pushing when time get

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