Growing up I was always a carefree child, living in the moment and not knowing
Growing up I was always a carefree child, living in the moment and not knowing
On 12-03-2015 at approximately 1745 hours I Officer Hildebrand, Officer Patrick Sullivan and Sgt. Joseph Harris were dispatched to 630 N D St. for report of an assault in progress. While en route Dispatch notified me saying the male individual assaulting the victim was Kevin Meyer. I had dealt with Kevin Meyer earlier in my shift. While driving East on West Gallatin I spotted Kevin 's pickup headed West on Gallatin.…
I kindly accepted that those people were my siblings. They were all part of my family, but I felt an immense distance. Whitney had her own mother standing by her. My eldest sister and brother shared the same mother, whom I never saw before.…
My father has been in the military for 30 years. His career has taken him and my family, to every corner of the world. The Air Force is a demanding career path to choose; often the spouse is left with the full weight of the chores to be done on the home front. During the course of my upbringing these duties were, in part, delegated to my sisters and I. While we never experienced “a life of almost tropical idleness’ (CITATION) like the children of Jane Smiley, we became effective and efficient members of our house hold. We learned to respect our house and our family.…
Growing up is tough. Every day people go through life with careers that they may not enjoy. Throughout the past few weeks I got the opportunity to interview two people about their jobs, one being a young adult who just started working, while the other was approaching her mid-life with an established career. The advice from both of these individuals was both eye opening and helpful. The age of the interviewee definitely influenced the responses I received.…
On a Tuesday evening two months into my junior year, I realized my life was changing. I was transitioning from child to adult in society’s eyes. I was working, driving, and taking more difficult classes to prepare for college. The more responsibilities I accepted, the more I was treated like an adult. It was not until two months later that I realized I was changing.…
Bottom of the 9th. Bases loaded. 2 outs. Title on the line. I knew I would be the one to lead my team to victory and send us home.…
Throughout my journey as a graduate student I feel as though I have spent almost more time reflecting on my life than counseling. More so, being able to reflect on ones life can give such beautiful insight, it can be challenging, however, once you allow it to happen it’s like an addiction, you can’t stop. Therefore, when finding out about this paper I was surprisingly interested and excited to reflect on my life through a developmental lens. More importantly, there were incidences that stood out like a sore thumb, from my mother’s pregnancy to my early childhood years.…
When I was an adolescent….. My world was turned upside down when my parent’s marriage started to fall apart. They turned to alcohol and became very withdrawn. At the age of 14, my life went from sports, school and friends, to all about shielding my younger sisters from the ugliness of our lives, salvaging my family’s reputation and making sure us kids had what we needed. What was a challenge?…
When I heard the words “ He has no mother. He has no skates “ I felt like shattering glass as I realized that Jerry lied to me. As I snapped out of it I told the lady what way did you see him go last. She replied “ I don't know “ I ran outside yelling his name like a crazy psychopath. As I thought of the many places he would go to I remembered he liked the pink and white bloomed laurel.…
Many people grow up having a normal childhood, I being one of them. I grew up living in a warm, and welcoming household with my mother, father, and older brother. As a child, we all thought we had no worries in the world. Everything was peaceful and taken care of by our parents. We all eventually grow up, and have to become more responsible.…
Shaping My Life I made myself into the person that I am today. I’m kind, caring and a person, which led me to change the way that I think and the atmosphere around me. I’ve always been caring and kind to others, and I’ve always thought about wanting to help people for the rest of my life. I changed that way that I think in several different ways, including changing how shy that I was and how I wasn’t looking people in the eyes when I talked to them. I also changed the way that the atmosphere was around me, by working hard in my life, and figuring out who my real friends were.…
The transition from childhood to adulthood is essentially a gradual process. There are several aspects of life, which take a long time to cultivate in an individual. However, certain events in life may cause the gradual learning curve to deviate sharply. Words like responsibility and planning can, in a short span of time, acquire overarching presence in life, and the world may no longer look as carefree and simple, as it once did. An air accident couple of years back was one such turning points in my life.…
As you grow old, you realize that there are different accomplishments for specific moments in your life. When you turn 18, you can buy your first lottery ticket, first drink at 21, graduating high school then college, getting married, having children. Then, having the total love and support from both of your parents. No one prepares you for when the vision changes. At any moment, an unexpected turn of events could erase that vision for good and you have to redefine the way you live.…
The Struggling Path to Adulthood I know many of my peers whose parents were uninvolved in their developmental years and after. The same can be said for me. One thing in common between my peers and I is that it took us a little bit longer to find a foothold as young adults cast into the world of responsibility and adulthood. Parents who do the bare minimum, feed, house, and clothe, are missing a vital link in the chain; emotional and developmental guidance.…
When I was a kid I thought that adulthood came to you like the Holy Spirit, you know, like one day I would woke up with boobs and hair in strange places and feel like a grown woman. And I would leave my parents’ house and live in a cool apartment in Manhattan (I know, I was ridiculous). In a certain way, Adulthood was like the Promised Land to me. All my problems would come to an end; and by problems I refer to going to school and having to socialize with my…