N Since she helped around in her father’s shop at a very young age her knowledge about a good work ethic devolved quickly. She also learned about pain and loss at very young age. When she was 15 her father fell very ill. He was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. In matter of only a few years his illness got so bad that he could not work anymore.…
During this time, Jeremy and his siblings went to stay with their grandmother out of state, so that their mother could attend to their father. This was a very difficult time for the family. In time, their father made a full recovery. Jeremy remembers this as a time of great insecurity, and still fears that he or a family member may die suddenly. He became very close to his grandmother during his stay with her.…
It is hard for a parent to see his child suffer. No parent wants his child to deal with a deadly disease, which would take the child away from them in someday. The parents live to see their child smile, grow, prosperous, and do well in their life. But what if they come to know that their beloved child is suffering from a deadly disease?…
Losing someone so close to you can internally and externally break you. One day you could be having a normal conversation with that one person talking about something exciting that happened in your day and the next day, they are gone. I can relate to this to a tee because I have gone through this with my mom. In my freshman year of high school, she got really sick and had a seizure in her sleep. I was the one that had found her and I was the one that called the ambulance.…
Pet Peeve Snap! Went my mom’s ankle as she strode down the stairs. “Call 911!” She yelled.…
The Day My Dad Died It all happened 7 years ago on July 17, 2009. My dad became sick whenever I was 9 months old e always had to go to the hospital every morning at 8 or 9 for ____A month before he died he went to Dr. Casey, and got some medicine that could affect his kidneys. The doctor didnt even check his kidneys and throughout that month no one told me what was going on with my dad. I went to his house like I normally did, but he wasn’t the same anymore.…
I remember seeing the reflection of my room through the giant mirror on our hallway wall. My mother was in the bathroom, she was preparing for a night out - she had on the best pair of black leather ankle boots -- yet I nagged her to talk about my dad. I was seven years old when my mom told me the story about death of my father; although, I’ve never gotten the full details until I was sixteen years old. Before that age, I usually created my own scenarios and scenes on how the tragedy happened. After those moments I’d often find myself very unhappy, I would focus my thoughts on a person I care dearly for but know nothing about.…
Telling my mother that I am a lesbian was the biggest accomplishment I ever did. When I was a kid, she would always scold me for acting boyish and playing with boy's toys. I had my first crush when I was in third grade. I could not tell anyone because I had a crush on a girl. For most of my life I had been a closed book.…
Growing up my mother and I had a very difficult relationship, it was a very difficult time in my life. We went through a lot of fights, name calling, hurtful words, wishing each other ill and pain. Growing up my mother used to verbally abuse me by calling me all kinds of names, criticized the way I looked and parts of my body. I was either too fat or too skinny but I was never good enough for her.…
Living life with a chronic disease is difficult for those with it and the people around them; but not unlivable. You or a loved one may be suffering from a chronic disease, and it could be very devastating. Around 57 percent of people in the US suffer from chronic diseases. A lot of people suffer from these diseases and might not even know.…
Growing up, with a dysfunctional family has taught me many skills,like controlling my emotions,forgiving and forgetting,enduring,and more. Also,being part of my family has taught me a lot about myself. Like, knowing I can handle any situation that I face,because when I was younger I dealt with my family who always fought. They would fight over anything,like who was aloud over and who wasn't. Therefore,family events were hard because no one got along with each other.…
I realized I wasn't the youngest child in the house. I had to be an adult to my younger brother. When I was 5 years old my mom got sick from giving pregnancy to my brother. Her kidneys became weak. She lost both of her kidneys after having my brother.…
One of my first memories I have about my parents is from when I was about four years old. They were having a loud argument. I can remember hiding in my younger brother’s room, trying to distract him from the commotion coming from my parent’s bedroom. I have always been on edge around my parents, I never wanted to do or say anything that would cause them to become upset with me or upset with each-other. They separated three or four times before I got to middle school.…
Death is final with no point of return and extremely painful for the ones left behind to grieve. This was especially true for me when I lost my mother. Losing her was one of the most difficulty experiences in my life because I was not prepared for her death. Looking back on the situation, there was nothing for which to prepare; she was only fifty-one years old. I knew her health was not the best; however, the diagnosed health problems were not what killed her.…
My Fathers illness has equally effected all of my siblings and I significantly. It is most difficult hearing stories from my family members about my father before he became ill and depressed. He was often considered the center of each conversation. It is difficult to type these words about my father considering that the last time my father and I have shared a laugh is beyond my memory. My mom always tells me that I am very similar to my father in terms of his stubbornness and positivity.…