Personal Narrative: Growing Up With A Dysfunctional Family

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Growing up, with a dysfunctional family has taught me many skills,like controlling my emotions,forgiving and forgetting,enduring,and more.Also,being part of my family has taught me a lot about myself.Like, knowing I can handle any situation that I face,because when I was younger I dealt with my family who always fought.They would fight over anything,like who was aloud over and who wasn't. Therefore,family events were hard because no one got along with each other.Since,no one got along, I learned that I didn't want to be like some of my family and I would forgive and forget the negative.So,controlling myself was just better.

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