Personal Narrative: Growing Up In A Military Family

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Growing up in a military family I learned some of the most important lessons about life. As a child it was essential for me to learn how to adjust to life, balance priorities, develop an identity, and cope with stress. These values have influenced me throughout my life.
In the beginning adjusting to life was one of the unyielding challenges I had to face. Although we moved often and I constantly had to make new friends. I quickly learned to adapt to new environments. This experience exposed me to a variety of diverse cultures which allowed me to become rather open-minded and accepting of people with different backgrounds. As a result I acquired

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